Hello,
So here is a quick background:
- In 2004 I entered into a good-faith marriage with ex-wife. Applied for AOS. Everything went smooth. We were interviewed a few months later and it was a piece of cake. Immigration officer said to expect GC in the mail a couple of weeks later.
- GC never came as I got stuck in the backlog of the name check process. For a couple of years, I had no idea what my status was. Only useful advice from USCIS was to wait.
- In 2006, after two years of the agony of not knowing what is going on, I come back from 2-week out-of-town trip and wife confronts me about her other man and tells me she wants to be with him.
- October 2006, I file for divorce and end our 2+ year marriage. I contact USCIS. I explain my situation. I am thinking about withdrawing my application or updating it saying that I am no longer married, but agent tells me that I can just wait.
- September 2007, 10-year GC shows up in the mail (never received a conditional GC).
- 2012/2013: I file my N400 and I am denied. The reason is that I haven't met my "lawful entry to permanent resident" since on 2007 (when I got my GC and my ex-wife's petition was finally processed) I was no longer married. Fair decision. Can't argue much with that.
The problem:
Since 2007, life happened. I met the amazing woman that I have been married to for 4 years (USC), I got degrees, advanced jobs, lived in the same city, had family move nearby, and developed as many ties as any normal person develops to his hometown. I have been in this city for going on 14 years now. I have a professional job, active in my community, you name it. My wife and I are even taking care of her elderly grandparents.
So I understand that my denial makes my green card invalid and will most likely be revoked and I might be placed in removal procedure. But let's face it, I cannot just leave my wife, my home and my life now. I don't even have any family or a home to go back to in my country of origin. All my family is mainly here.
I am thinking it is probably not even worth appealing the decision. But is there anything that can be done moving forward to prevent removal? Removal will definitely mean the loss of my job, unimaginable hardship on our marriage and financial well-being, loss of my career as I am planning on going back to graduate school.
Any suggestions or advice? And I hope you can be gentle with your response (seen some harsh responses around here). One day you have such a happy life and promising future, and overnight it looks bleak and uncertain. Is there hope for fixing this while remaining in the US?
So here is a quick background:
- In 2004 I entered into a good-faith marriage with ex-wife. Applied for AOS. Everything went smooth. We were interviewed a few months later and it was a piece of cake. Immigration officer said to expect GC in the mail a couple of weeks later.
- GC never came as I got stuck in the backlog of the name check process. For a couple of years, I had no idea what my status was. Only useful advice from USCIS was to wait.
- In 2006, after two years of the agony of not knowing what is going on, I come back from 2-week out-of-town trip and wife confronts me about her other man and tells me she wants to be with him.
- October 2006, I file for divorce and end our 2+ year marriage. I contact USCIS. I explain my situation. I am thinking about withdrawing my application or updating it saying that I am no longer married, but agent tells me that I can just wait.
- September 2007, 10-year GC shows up in the mail (never received a conditional GC).
- 2012/2013: I file my N400 and I am denied. The reason is that I haven't met my "lawful entry to permanent resident" since on 2007 (when I got my GC and my ex-wife's petition was finally processed) I was no longer married. Fair decision. Can't argue much with that.
The problem:
Since 2007, life happened. I met the amazing woman that I have been married to for 4 years (USC), I got degrees, advanced jobs, lived in the same city, had family move nearby, and developed as many ties as any normal person develops to his hometown. I have been in this city for going on 14 years now. I have a professional job, active in my community, you name it. My wife and I are even taking care of her elderly grandparents.
So I understand that my denial makes my green card invalid and will most likely be revoked and I might be placed in removal procedure. But let's face it, I cannot just leave my wife, my home and my life now. I don't even have any family or a home to go back to in my country of origin. All my family is mainly here.
I am thinking it is probably not even worth appealing the decision. But is there anything that can be done moving forward to prevent removal? Removal will definitely mean the loss of my job, unimaginable hardship on our marriage and financial well-being, loss of my career as I am planning on going back to graduate school.
Any suggestions or advice? And I hope you can be gentle with your response (seen some harsh responses around here). One day you have such a happy life and promising future, and overnight it looks bleak and uncertain. Is there hope for fixing this while remaining in the US?