SusieQQQ
Well-Known Member
Re when you talk about your mom needing divorce and marriage certificates and asking why they don’t ask for this proof upfront - they do. it is very clearly stated on the website that deals with the immigrant visa process :
If you are married, you must obtain an original marriage certificate or certified copy.
So that bit is on your mother (or whoever decided they were in charge of the family case) for not following instructions.
As for CSPA and aging out, I mean the instructions also mention that but it’s totally unclear to me how NVC actually approaches this. Sometimes they take out kids who have turned 21 but are still protected by CSPA and sometimes they leave kids in who aren’t. And it’s not as clear as it should be that each family should check CSPA age for themselves before paying the fees. Unfortunately you also seem to have gotten bad advice from the lawyer, who should have told you that the consulate does not have discretion over this. The day your CSPA age reaches 21 is the day you age out. This is nothing to do with Trump and has been the case always, since they introduced it. I think maybe your lawyer doesn’t know how to calculate CSPA age so says that bs rather than giving you proper advice. So if your other cousins have aged out but are hoping for some miracle, it’s not going to happen.
If you are married, you must obtain an original marriage certificate or certified copy.
- Send a photocopy of your marriage certificate to NVC.
- Bring the original marriage certificate plus a photocopy to your visa interview at the U.S. Embassy or Consulate.
- Send a photocopy of your marriage termination document(s) to NVC.
- Bring the original termination document(s) plus a photocopy to your visa interview at the U.S. Embassy or Consulate.
So that bit is on your mother (or whoever decided they were in charge of the family case) for not following instructions.
As for CSPA and aging out, I mean the instructions also mention that but it’s totally unclear to me how NVC actually approaches this. Sometimes they take out kids who have turned 21 but are still protected by CSPA and sometimes they leave kids in who aren’t. And it’s not as clear as it should be that each family should check CSPA age for themselves before paying the fees. Unfortunately you also seem to have gotten bad advice from the lawyer, who should have told you that the consulate does not have discretion over this. The day your CSPA age reaches 21 is the day you age out. This is nothing to do with Trump and has been the case always, since they introduced it. I think maybe your lawyer doesn’t know how to calculate CSPA age so says that bs rather than giving you proper advice. So if your other cousins have aged out but are hoping for some miracle, it’s not going to happen.