lol@ Al Southner, your post made me laugh! And yes, I do know how old my husband is and that has nothing to do with me holding a Finance degree, it is rather simple algebra and someone who spent a couple of semesters @ Columbia Law School would know that, unless they wereonly there to hold the doors for the legal Bar-Men!
Guys ( jackolantern, al southner), I know now he was over 18 when his parents filed for Citizenship ( I spoke to his mum). Also, I am the one speaking to the lawyer and filling out the forms for the citizenship application, we will go together to meet with the lawyer sometimes next week. He knows that I spoke to my parents and divorce was on the table, so he knows Im pretty serious about this now. Another thing is my mum is paying for the lawyer so I will be the one handling everything from now one which makes the process more transparent as I can contact the lawyer directly and know what's going on as opposed to relying on him and what he tells me.
Also, I will not be moving out, we're still going to be living under the same roof. We don't have a joint bank account, so I don't know how that's gonna affect my application when the time for that comes. Also the lease is only under my name as his credit wasn't good. All the bills are pretty much under my name coz I guess I am financially way more responsible than him. SInce I am not working, I am under his health insurance plan, and his name was under my auto insurance but I cancelled that insurance a few months ago. We do have a child together, and a lot of pictures, isn't that proof enough for USCIS?
I know I can't separate from him until all of this is over. I just hope we won't run into anymore hurdles and it goes fast. Im planning on having everything sent out by next week. We live in Washington, DC. I don't know how long the process takes around here, but I will keep you posted. In the meantime, any help from you guys is appreciated. Thanks again!