closedloop
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I'm panicking because I realised I misinterpreted the words of the letter. Previously I was told I had to wait another 2-3 years because our marriage was very new. The letter then talked about 2nd anniversary (which I later realised was the anniversary of the card, rather than marriage) and something about how it doesnt matter if your card expires you can keep this letter and don't file early. So I thought I was supposed to wait. So now it's nearly 2025 and I'm severely late.
At the time, it was in the middle of the whole covid pandemic and I constantly had fights with my spouse (at a later point we nearly divorced) so a lot of my brain was elsewhere. We started mending the relationship and moved to a new apartment (previous place had a mold problem) which was when I remembered to update the address and reread the letter and realised my mistake.
I'm calling an immigration attorney but reading the paper they gave me they said theres no guarantee for results. I also fear that it's likely I'll get deported because we are a very untraditional marriage. I kept my last name, we don't have a kid, we don't really like taking pictures, and our date activities are mostly going for a walk and playing pikmin. Our birthdays are also lowkey and we just go out and eat instead of doing anything. Separate bank accounts... He's paid for my hospital bills though, we have a gym membership and file taxes jointly... but I fear it's not enough.
Is there any way I can increase my chances?
At the time, it was in the middle of the whole covid pandemic and I constantly had fights with my spouse (at a later point we nearly divorced) so a lot of my brain was elsewhere. We started mending the relationship and moved to a new apartment (previous place had a mold problem) which was when I remembered to update the address and reread the letter and realised my mistake.
I'm calling an immigration attorney but reading the paper they gave me they said theres no guarantee for results. I also fear that it's likely I'll get deported because we are a very untraditional marriage. I kept my last name, we don't have a kid, we don't really like taking pictures, and our date activities are mostly going for a walk and playing pikmin. Our birthdays are also lowkey and we just go out and eat instead of doing anything. Separate bank accounts... He's paid for my hospital bills though, we have a gym membership and file taxes jointly... but I fear it's not enough.
Is there any way I can increase my chances?