soham13 said:
POJ,
BTW, I have a Quick Question ....! If GOD is in Control , what type of control is it ? I think GC process is not in HIS control too....! And this clause must have been excluded when HE aggreed with the CONTROL contract for US ALL in GC Journey...!
Like you take care of GC and I will Handle rest of the stuff.....! What do you say ?
Dear Friend,
I have heartest great respect of all others believes, and I believe this fourm is not proper place to dig the details of who meant what.
Let me put on this way when ppl despreately come here on this fourm to look some answers/help/clue on their concerns they are in absolutly full of panic, worries. and as they read/learn threads about what is going on with others, they start compare and they find themselves in fear of samething what other are going thourgh, and they start to get worried. Fear is the worst enemy of your, fear also trigger frustration, and anger. and they are signs of negative energy inside you.
I always try first, my best to make them calm down, by encouraging words, and encouraging for hope. I never mean more than that.
Whenever I use name 'God' I always write in "()"
(Whaterver you believes on, and whatever you name him) and I believe ppl know it very well what all I mean that.
All I can give answer of your question is,
I pray for you.
I hope you will get ur GC soon. and would be happy and busy in ur life. may be later u understand that GC is not everything in life, some ppl focus too much on GC in life and ignore many imporant thing around them, later they realize the fact. anyway all I can say is "Wish Good Luck".
Beside all I just remember the story. you may find some helpful things in it.
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A sage presented a prince with a set of three small dolls.
The prince was not amused.
"Am I a girl that you give me dolls?" he asked.
"This is a gift for a future king," said the man.
"If you look carefully, you'll see a hole in the ear of each doll."
"So?"
The sage handed him a piece of string.
"Pass it through each doll," he said.
Intrigued, the prince picked up the first doll and put the string into the ear.
It came out from the other ear.
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This is one type of person," said the man. "
Whatever you tell him, comes out from the other ear. He doesn't retain anything."
The prince put the string into the second doll. It came out from the mouth.
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This is the second type of person," said the man. "
Whatever you tell him, he tells everybody else."
The prince picked up the third doll and repeated the process. The string did not reappear from anywhere else.
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This is the third type of person," said the man. "
Whatever you tell him is locked up within him. It never comes out."
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What is the best type of person?" asked the prince.
The man handed him a fourth doll, in answer.
When the prince put the string into the doll, it came out from the other ear.
"Do it again," said the sage. The prince repeated the process. This time the string came out from the mouth. When he put the string in a third time, it did not come out at all.
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This is the best type of person," said the sage. "
To be trustworthy, a man must know when not to listen, when to remain silent and when to speak out."
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Good Luck