Britsimon
Super Moderator
Does she have a high school diploma? If your wife is being used to charge she also has to meet the requirement. You can have a Nobel prize but if she doesn't have high school or the requisite work experience, that makes your application ineligible as it now relies on her.
Like Simon said, it's not a guaranteed entry but it's worth a chance to use your wife to cross-charge (don't go on about her parents and your kid - they are irrelevant to DV chargeability). I've definitely heard of cases where they do properly check full eligibility of the spouse being used for chargeability so be sure to bring the evidence (I presume Simon has heard of some where they haven't checked judging by his comment...but you're already taking a bit of a chance, I wouldn't push it too much).
To be honest...I just wish people would read the instructions properly, it would avoid these types of issues.
Yes, my comments were based on recent cases. The most recent was interesting, the embassy did not check the spouses' education, but did issue the visas as dv1s and had the notation that they had to enter together. So the embassy didn't know how to apply the rule at the interview, but got the post interview processes right.
I agree though, there is significant risk and following the instructions would have been easier.