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INS is a great example of the love-hate relationship. we are not leaving the country to show our hatred, so it is with desi marriage, IMHO. It takes time, understanding, patience, tolerance etc...keep woking on it like you do for education, career etc. she is a relatively new person in your life and has come a long way, so give in a little; a second chance is a good thing to consider. Please don\'t think I am sitting in a high pedestal and giving crap. I too have had close calls in marriage ... but never divorce, if a kid is involved it just makes things worse.
To help you here tell us your "actual situatuion" and let your fellow 485 sufffers tell you what they would do if they where in your shoes. Divorce is not a solution, understanding and mutual respect is ... just as a excercise to reevaluate your thoughts and perceptions from a different point of view.
Take the good in America, is Liz Tylor happy after so many marriages, it is just a perception thing of "dream marriage with Aishwarya" but will she cook, clean and all that our desi mind would expect... accept things as they are with imperfections. Madhuri Dixit in CA is not dancing to "Didi tera Dewar Deewana.." or running around trees. Time to say "hello world" to Reality.