Eric,
you understood my problem 100%, so thank you so much for your answer!
The thing is, I pretty much HAVE to go back to my country in dec: beside wishing to spend Xmas with my family (they're very religious, so that's a pretty big deal), I also have the church reserved for MY WEDDING in Italy in dec! So, I really can't miss that. It took forever to get a wedding date with that church, and it's pretty impossible to cancel.
Of course we're already married here in the US (just a civil marriage, we got married in a court house with no family around) but we have our religious one reserved there, and my whole huge family will attend it.
I'm very confused.
I have my appointment with DORA in a couple of day, but I'm really thinking it'd be better if I just mailed everything and wait for my AP to come, so I can leave.
Is there any way I could apply for AP before the 70th day letter, or before the 90 days are passed?
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP guys, you're really all I have right now.
I called the 1-800 # so many times, but I get different answers all the time, seems like they're not even informed on the DORA rules.
Thanks again...I'll let you know.