I have similar situation. The USCIS received my appl of 751 in 1st Mar-05 since then no response. But my USC spouse is proceeding divorce from me. Obviously it's very frustrating and stressing for me. I am trying to keep the costive divorce proceeding go as slow as possible, but it won't last after the end of this year according the court schedule. I am trying also to collect as many as possible the evidence of our marriage live together, but my spouse is trying to destroy or hide them. Since we only actually lived together only about 6 months and the rest of our 3.5 year marriage we lived in different states because I was pursuing my PhD. We exchanged numerous visits.
Please post your comments, ideas, experiences & stratigies on what could be my best approach to take to remove the condition. Since most of marriage we lived separately, it's a drawback plus my spouse's uncooperative/destructive actions.
Thanks,
A desperate person
P.S. mine is in Nebraska Center