wow guys you are being kind of harsh. My fiance is an asylee and he wishes to go back to his COP for the first time because his grandmother is dying and she wishes to see him before she passes on. is it "unreal" for him to want to see his grandmother before she dies and he never sees her again? maybe you guys need to THINK about the fact that people still have a life and family in their COP. and its not like he plans to live there, he wants visit family. he is the only person here, he has no family in the US beside my family. so could you blame him for wanting to go back to his COP just for a few weeks?