Aliwa, as you said, you can only do your part and hope for the best. Good luck to you.
As for the In-status/out-of-status question, my case got tricky because of Chicago Asylum Office's failure to give me a decision in a timely manner. I was in status (OPT) when I applied for asylum, but out of status by the time I got the final denial. Technically, the final denial was made in November 2007 while I was still in status, b
ut for some odd reason I was not informed of that decision until February 2008 when a senator's office sought a decision on my behalf. By February 2008, though, I was already out of status, but still ineligible for referral to an immigration judge because I was in status when the final denial was issued in November 2007. My advice to you is to maintain a constant line of communication with the asylum office.
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I got insight into how unpredictable the asylum process can be from a few studies I came across way after I had sent in my asylum application. Apparently, your chances depend on many factors including
1) Location of Asylum Center
2) Your nationality
3) Whether you have legal representation or not
4) The gender of the AO
5) The experience of the AO
6) The political affiliation of the AO
7) The number of dependents you report
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The New York Times article -
Big Disparities in Judging of Asylum Cases
TRAC Immigration Report -
Asylum Disparities Persist, Regardless of Court Location and Nationality
US Immigration Judge Decisions in Asylum Cases, Jan 2000 to Aug 2004
This NYTimes article is based on a more comprehensive paper you can download from here:
http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=983946