When I filed with the Oakland District Court, I was given documents including this one. The clerk told me to make copies and send each defendant a set, which I did. Later the Court sent me a schedule, such as the timing of the initial case management conference, joint case management conference statement (by both plaintiff and defendants), signing the ADR etc....I was quite nervous at the beginning. When I was getting closer to those set dates, I called the Assistant US Att. and found out she knew a lot more about procedures
and deadlines. She said she had the templates of all those documents. In case we would go that far, she would draft and let me review, then we file together....On the other hand, she was hoping the name check result would come back before we had to do anything-----Turned out she was right! And in reality, we were practicing ADR already.
My advice is, refer to your Pro Se handbook and local rules. I checked the schedule set by the Court once a week, then read the relavent chapters in the Pro Se handbook/local rules to get familiar with the legal terms, and to see what documents I should start preparing or whom to call to make arrangement....I would not go beyond I should know at that point, nor would I worry about what to say in front of the judge yet. We are all very busy. A lot of time it is just too stressful, since we did not have prior experience. But step by step, we'll all make it.
So stay calm and take a deep breath. For now you just need to send them each a pack of the documents together with your summons and complains (DO NOT need to sign anything), then enjoy your reading of posting on this forum!