greencard12 said:
I filed WM for AOS in April and am about to call US attorney tomorrow. Mohamedmohamed, how did you approach the attorney? In other words, how did you initiate the conversation with her/him? Are they supposed to talk to you?
it is the advice of the court civl rules, and all the other litigation ethics to identify and contact the representative of the opsit side or the defendents, and that is exactly how i started the conversation with the US attorney, just from the prospective i would like to who is handling the cases, and where to send future documents and filing, whitout discussing who is right or who is wrong, because the court is the place for that.
but eventually he was the one who brough that up, even know he didnt exactly accept any wrongfoing by the USCIS, but he did show a desire to see all this solved before it is get complicated, which is a good indication that he doesnt want to fight it, either because he/or his client have sme sympathy for my case, or sumply know that they cant win it, whatever the reason, he isnt the one who inflicted the harm on me, so just bear that in mind, so you have stay polite, never be disrespectful, or show any sarcasm, or skepticism, but you dont have to take any crap from anyone either, so it ill depends on the type of the person you dealing, but one thing you have to do , is just to deal with them , on the basis, of some good faith, because the US attorney's generally arent bad guys, and they know that case like this A) is right, B)embaracing, but more importantly C) is complicated and have a multi dimentional aspects, and it have to go through a layers of beraucracy, inside the USCIS, and FBI, so sometime there isnt an instantaneous fix to it.
so my bekeive is that if the US attorney seem to have some understanding or sympathy to your case (as long as they dont act like an assholes) try to not upset them, and that may work better for you.
even if you can win the case in court, they can make you go through a rough time before that happen , they can ask for extensions, pull stunts, make excuse, which all it does is delay your case months after months, so try to stay on their good side, but keep working hard to corner them, and strip them from any excuse they might want to use against you .
in short dont be too soft so you dont get twisted around, and dont be too solid because you might be broken or whatever the saying is.