Folks, I am troubled by this.. As i posted earlier, OP wants to enjoy full benefits and freedoms of being US citizen, however, IP do not want to take a responsibility for defending this country ....is it too much to ask?
Just imagine this...OP wants to become part of “new country " with all benefits and rights but OP does not want to protect his/her new country when needed/asked for or when the country is under attack from enemies (foreign, domestic)....If this is OP's true intent, I wonder why, OP should be eligible for citizenship.
Yes, you may say that some wars could be unjust/etc and but the world is not perfect..you take risk with everything (job, marriage, etc)...The difference here is that as the citizen you will have a right to influence the government decision/politics by voting and being elected.
There can be reasonable disagreement over political opinion, but the fact of the matter is that the USCIS rules allow for a modified oath when the applicant meets certain criteria, sanctioned by several Supreme Court decisions. You may not agree with it, but the original question raised by the OP was regarding whether it is possible to get the oath modified, and it is.
Someone who swears the modified oath is no lesser citizen than someone who swears the full oath.