22yo Living in the us for 11yrs options on legalizing??

robert-wagner

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hey all...

I am 22 years old I've been living in NY with my 18yo sister our mother for 11 years, my mother got married almost 5 years ago to a Green Card Holder
and hes been out of our home for about 2 years but they haven't divorced for the sake of her and my sister getting their Green Cards but a divorce is likely to happen because we cant wait any longer on a dirt bag that wont help or even pay his taxes my mom does......
now what options do we have? we couldn't go back to Brazil even if i wanted to my education here isn't valid there and i couldn't attend college, so i would be a nobody in my own country that i barely speak the language.

Now do i get married to a friend? who's 19 years old or is there any other way we can apply for a Green Card without risking having to leave ?
 
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Well, if you are 22 yrs old you can make your own decision on this particular matter.

If you are getting married make sure it's for love. :) and no there is no other way to fix this unless there is a immigration reform and amnesty.

Sorry!
 
If the guy that your mom married is a green card holder it's gonna take a LONG time for her to get her greencard. After she gets her greencard she can apply for you but that process is gonna take a long time too. I might be wrong, but I thought that if you were getting your greencard through marriage with a greencard holder you couldn't stay in the country or work. I thought only people that married a USC could do that. If i'm right, that means that your mom shouldn't even be in the US.

Marying a 'friend' is not a solution, that's just lying to the system and bringing more problems to yourself and to the rest of people trying to get a greencard through marriage.
 
payala said:
I might be wrong, but I thought that if you were getting your greencard through marriage with a greencard holder you couldn't stay in the country or work. I thought only people that married a USC could do that. If i'm right, that means that your mom shouldn't even be in the US.

Spouses of LPR can stay in this country and work as long as they maintain their own legal status till their PD is current and I-485 is applied.
 
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