Hi, I would like to asked, I just got my 10 year green card just this April 2008. We married in good faith and I have already proven it because I have no second interview INS just mailed my card to the house. My question is, our marriage is not good too many to mention; but I cannot take it any longer it's not my fault it's my husband fault because his intentions are not marrying me. He got five grown children from ex-wife. We don't have child together. I'm 34 yrs. old and he is 54 yrs. old. Before he even wrote INS that I'm the one fraud but the truth is he is the one fraud he married me just to use me. He wants to include me to all his debts and loans because he filed for bankruptcy and avail many life insurances in which he is the beneficiary I told him that's too many what is your plan to become millionaire? So what I did I filed for postnuptial right away so that I won't be included with his debts and I revoke all the life and accident life insurances that he availed. I know life insurances is important so the other won't be burdern with funeral but the fact that he wants to become rich for my life that's not fair because I told him I want my parents to be the beneficiaries but what he told me he shoutedly say NO NO NO I"m the one paying for that. But I don't have anything also he told me when he died his house is for his children and all his insurances. As if the meaning of marriage for him is business money venture. He never loved me we have arguments and problems even before but I patiently live with him because he threatened to send me back home to my home country what would I do? I don't have a job anymore. I'm not a piece of dirt when he don't need me just throw me away. Now I got my 10 year green card. He always arguing me because I saw how he hates me he got nothing from me his plan has already been stopped. He told me how many times you are ZERO you are useless.
Few months ago he bought 10 acre land which cost 4,000 dollars only because it's in Detroit which is cheap. And yesterday he bought a new house in which I don't know. His plan are for his grown children and grandchildren he never had a plan for me as his wife. He wants me to help me I worked and pay the bills while his salary are for supporting and buying house and lots for his grown children. I couldn't take that because as if he married me just to help him. I asked help from him how many times my mother was in emergency she got diabetic and accidentally broke his foot as in falling apart so she needs operation my family from my country called me telling me my mother needs operation right away. I asked help from him just to lend me for only 300 dollars I had 700 dollars which I saved from working before I didn't asked him to give me lend me only for my mother needs operation he shouted at me and never give me help even a single centavo. I was hospitalized how many times from appendicitis and ectopic pregnancy but he was never on my side. He missed his ex-wife he still in love with his ex-wife. He wants his family back his children and ex-wife thats why its hard for him to love me. There are so many too mentions but this is my story.
I want to file for divorce but I'm thinking when is the best time to do it because I just recently gotten my card this April 2008. Should I wait for one year or more? I couldn't stand him at all.
Few months ago he bought 10 acre land which cost 4,000 dollars only because it's in Detroit which is cheap. And yesterday he bought a new house in which I don't know. His plan are for his grown children and grandchildren he never had a plan for me as his wife. He wants me to help me I worked and pay the bills while his salary are for supporting and buying house and lots for his grown children. I couldn't take that because as if he married me just to help him. I asked help from him how many times my mother was in emergency she got diabetic and accidentally broke his foot as in falling apart so she needs operation my family from my country called me telling me my mother needs operation right away. I asked help from him just to lend me for only 300 dollars I had 700 dollars which I saved from working before I didn't asked him to give me lend me only for my mother needs operation he shouted at me and never give me help even a single centavo. I was hospitalized how many times from appendicitis and ectopic pregnancy but he was never on my side. He missed his ex-wife he still in love with his ex-wife. He wants his family back his children and ex-wife thats why its hard for him to love me. There are so many too mentions but this is my story.
I want to file for divorce but I'm thinking when is the best time to do it because I just recently gotten my card this April 2008. Should I wait for one year or more? I couldn't stand him at all.