Thread creation and communication guidlines

Sumanta

Registered Users (C)
Just thought of summarizing some guidelines both for creating
new threads as well as responding inside of threads.

Most of you may be already adept at it, but for those of u who
may be new, thought it might help.

1) If you think someone's talking Logic & Sense, the best
way to respond is by saying "YOU ARE WRONG".

2) If the person still responds and applies logic & reason ,
tell him/her "YOU ARE MENTALLY SICK".

3) If the person again responds and this time the bare
truths are too hard to bear and seem to stare at your
own life and actions, just delete that thread. That way
you don't have to have the morbid truth staring at your
face all teh time u open that thread.

Maybe u will see these guidelines exemplified in some
responses to this posting itself.

Happy learning.
 
Just give up already...

Sumanta

I have been viewing your numerous posts on this board and must say that you are simply wasting your energy. You simply wont get the kind of support you need from this bunch.

While in labor, I tried to galvanise some support. When the DOL go from approving LC's in 2 months to 12 months, there is simply no excuse for the degradation in service. I spent time and $$$ to do something, but firstly, people on this (and similar) boards are content to wallow in their misery and secondly, you have to remember is the bueareaucray you are dealing with - they usually dont care about petitions. But they do understand class actions.

Thankfully I got my 140 in 6 weeks and went on to a successful CP a few months ago.. However, again there is no excuse for 140's to go from 6 weeks (RD Feb 1, AD March 19 - with an infux of TSC transfers) to N/A

People simply accept this as kismet thinking that its a favor that the US govt does to their miserable souls. They dont get it that the difference is that while they do not have a right to get the GC, they DO have a right to get a speedy decision.

I just know that I'm gonna be flamed.. Go on.. I dont care.. But sumanta, have a beer and relax. You simply wont get what you are looking for.. At least not here.
 
U think I don't get that !

Not only r u 100% right...its something I am well aware of.

I will tell u more.

95% of the people who are on this forum happen to be from a
nation called India, from which I belong too. Not that I am not
proud of its qualities, but I have no qualms in realizing certain
other traits.

These traits may hurt bcoz they r stark, morbid and so true
that they r almost a slap on our faces.

These people.. all they know is how to find a rat hole at the
least noise. If u talk about organizing, they shy away.
They have qualities, strong education, money, and yet,
they don't want to stand up and ask for what's theirs.

In fact if u happen to be one among them who wants to, u will
get brickbats !

Cowardice and servitude is almost bred in their marrow. I am sure
all that they learn from their early days is that "sahebs"
( an acronym for anybody who has white skin , even if that
person has 0 money, 0 brains and is the most decrepit )
are their destined rulers. So even if they can stand up and get
something, they will choose the route whereby the same stuff is
obtained like "alms" from those "sahebs".

200 years of British rule has bent their backbones so much,
that even standing straight is out of qn.

Having suffered the worst Islamic terrorism in the last 10
centuries, these people r so shameless that if u go to any
public place like an airport or an office, u will see them
behaving as if they are the ones that r guilty !!!! When they r
the ones who have actually been victims !!! Can u believe it....?

That was my point too... why not act together and ask this
shitty Govt. agency to make faster decisions ? Just look at their
response.....from utter helplessness to total acceptance..!
In fact one of them even told me that he knew the possible
reason why these "sahebs" do this. Imagine....he is totally
not bothered about his own strong/valid reason to complain,
but he is so totally aware of the reason why INS delays like this!

Do u think there is any word for this kinda mentality ?
Docility, servitude, slave...what do u call it ?
 
Sumanta!!

Do not take me otherwise. I am not form India. So let's not talk about what indians are.....what are their strengths and what are their short commings. Your above posting is not related with the core issue, which this fourm suppose to have.

You me....probably thousands out there , who are suffered from delay of I 140.

In fact I like you idea to ask govenment what's going on. Why there is not any certain rule and regulations. Why some I 140 are approved within a month and some takes 8 freaking months.
 
Pardon me !

Pardon me for my political incorrectness...but I hope u would agree that the huge bulk are from that nation.

I feel sorry to say this....but maybe u r so open minded
bcoz u have that honest corage to rake up the very same
questions I have been asking,

maybe bcoz u r not from a
nation where people grow up to be narrow-minded,
spineless cowards. Can u imagine how pained i feel to say
this ?

Anyway, I would surely like us to post stuff related to our
core problems...how do u think we go about it..?

Let's keep talking...
 
India's always on my mind

Hey SUmanta
your ramblings about India have some interest and could spark a lively debate, but have little to do with the topic at hand - why don't you find a nice little forum about the indian culture , soul, british rule, gandhi etc ? don't forget the Sikhs. Keep this forum for immigration matters. I also note that it is hosted by a lawyer with an Indian name by the way.
I am not Indian, but I think you have interesting opinions on immigration processing on the one hand and india on the other - i just think they should be addressed to different publics, don't you think ?
Peace
 
Out here. the two merge

Ramblings or otherwise.. if u delve a wee bit deeper than
just grazing the surface.. these two aspects u mention do
actually merge.

In fact, they both have a lot to do with solving the problem at
hand.

I am not here for a mere debate's sake....am here to solve /
address the issue.

Also, maybe bcoz u r not Indian, that u point out to keep
Sikhs in my mind.. what does that mean ? I have never heard
or thought or learnt that Sikhs weren't Indian ? How come u
even say that to me...? A people who are so part of my culture,
heritage, everything.. why do I need extra effort to keep
them in my mind..? Its almost like telling an American to
keep the people from New Jersey in their mind !!!!!
 
sikh or sick ?

Hey Su, you really ought to take a hot or cold soothing shower or a cup of tea or whatever calms you down - i mentioned sikhs because the last time I checked the papers they were making bloody headlines in India - I could have mentioned sacred cows, Calcutta toilets problem, the Gange pollution , Chandigar, Pondichery, IT industry, "a suitable boy", " the god of small th ings" or any other Indian peculiarity I fancy --Rudyard Kipling for one - so don't start and try a civil war with NJ, BTW I am not even American (or I would not waste my time on this forum ) - over for now
 
Thanks.. don't worry...

Soothing tea or cold shower.. i need neither..but thx anyway.

And don't get too worked up by the stereotyping about
India in media.. the nation has survived 5000.. 10000...
who knows how many years...it will survive with elan a lot
more.

I guess its a favorite pastime of many people to throw lotsa
stuff about India in such a weird light.. life is after all,
so boring anywhere else.

Instead, I think there should be media coverage on how
thousands of very intelligent, educated, well-earned
tech savvy professionals use a weird thing called H-B Visa to
spend their lives in quiet, docile misery in the world;s
most free country ... a much better story than Ganges or
cows....!!!

Believe me !!!
 
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