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One year and half ago, I brought my fiancé from my home country to be with me. We got married and then I filed petition to adjust his legal status in order for him to become a legal permanent resident. Little that I knew, he had no intention of staying with me, he had a girlfriend here already so he used me to bring him here. He moved out of my house six months after our wedding and after he got his work permit. His petition was cancelled, his work permit expired but he is still here working. I wonder if there is anybody outhere who has any idea of what is going to happen to this guy. Is the immigration system going to allow him to stay or is he going back? What can I do? I am really hurt.

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Wow.....

One thing I have learned about the INS......
In MOST cases , they don't come looking for you......
They wait til your ass get into some trouble and then find you.......
Now this Guy who used you, if he is still working and living in the U>S without valid papers then he will get into trouble but it won't happen overnight.........Unless you call and tell the INS over and over again........
So its only a matter of time..............
 
ahowell said:
One thing I have learned about the INS......
In MOST cases , they don't come looking for you......
They wait til your ass get into some trouble and then find you.......
Now this Guy who used you, if he is still working and living in the U>S without valid papers then he will get into trouble but it won't happen overnight.........Unless you call and tell the INS over and over again........
So its only a matter of time..............
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And sometimes they do come after you. I've seen it happen. They know he is out of status and if they think he committed marriage fraud, he's gone. There is virtually no way to save that.
 
I know you are in Pain about this..and i don't want for you to take this the wrong way but, what the hell were you thinking????
Listen up.
This is what you need to do and what you have to do.
You need to move on!
It is a blessing in disguise believe it or not.
You don't need to end with someone who is going to leave you 10yrs from now because he never really loved you...After you gave him those 10 best yrs of your life!
Let that loser go....let him be someone else's loser..find another love..life moves on and you need to..
And don't even bother about getting even..trust the big guy upstair..meaning GOD-He Is not asleep and he is keeping tab... he my friend never forgets..
He is waiting for the perfect time to drop the mother load on you ex.
So let your ex go and it will catch up to him...time goes and we cannot get them back ...and embrace what lies ahead....Make active choices-strong decisions on what you want right now in your life..and get a move on sister...time waits for no man..good luck...
 
If it was to me, I would forget about it already but it's not easy. I am most concern about the whole immigration thing. Thank you for your input.
 
1. Forget about him. Move on.

2. If you don't feel like #1 and want to be vindictive, look up the local 'Immigration and Customs Enforcement' office and keep updating them about where he works etc. From what you are telling us, he might have committed immigration fraud by using you to get his papers. It will probably take a while until they get their ___ in gear, but they might just take care of your problem.
 
hadron said:
1. Forget about him. Move on.

2. If you don't feel like #1 and want to be vindictive, look up the local 'Immigration and Customs Enforcement' office and keep updating them about where he works etc. From what you are telling us, he might have committed immigration fraud by using you to get his papers. It will probably take a while until they get their ___ in gear, but they might just take care of your problem.
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Thank You.
 
i never said that it is easy.....When you find out that you have been used..Or feel like you have been....It takes courange to walk away...But take what you can from your situation and run....
Revenge is just that....no one wins!!!!!......will he come back to you?..and if he did come back to you... would you want that sort of man in your life?
I hope you are nodding right now,if not consult a shrink not the immigration... ;)
 
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