Timeline
I send my package around 14th June 2005.
My ND is 29th June 2005.
Then I got my EAD at the end of August 2005.
I got the interview letter around 15th October 2005.
I am also a little bit worried, because we don't have wedding pictures, no reception, no wedding band. But we do have joint saving and checking accounts, cell phone bills on same family plan, comcast bill with both names on it, then he has one credit card with me as an additional card holder, and I have a credit card as him as an additional card holder. Then we have some causal pictures.
I am not sure if this is good enough, since he moved in my apartment when we got married, so everything is under my name.