Time for RFE
I have my RFE in front of me. It states:
'From the date this office receives your resubmission a minimum of 14 days will be required to process your form. If you have not heard from us within 60 days then you may contact this office at (802) 527-4913.'
60 days is printed in bold. Apart from the error (it should be after 60 days not within), it seems they're saying it can take two weeks to two months, and maybe more...
Hopefully, it will be faster for you and for all of us, but if you haven't heard, you should call--even the INS say so.
Mine is employment based, but the letter looks pretty standard. It has a barcode on it too--I've heard somewhere on this forum that that speeds matters up.
A tangential thought. One of the worst things about this is getting the RFE and for a moment thinking you've gotten an approval, then opening it, wondering what is going on, and then worrying even more...