so, in the case of my husband they want three things:
1. biographical form
2. medical exam
3. supplement to medical exam
To recap, he applied in January '97; did his fingerprints in early August.
I understand that there isn't much logic to anything the INS does, but I would like to know (if anyone has a clue) why they ask different things from different people. The exam costs about $250 and it just makes me mad that they dont' even acknowledge that.
My husband is so fed up with everything, he insists he wants to circle the option on the form that says "don't submit anything and ask to be considered as is." I, of course, tell him not to mess with the bastards, but then again, perhaps someone should dare not to be cowardly and submissive. I admire him for having the guts to stand up for himself.
We've all been through so much, and yet we are willing to put up with anything they serve up just to get the damn card. We are willing to cough up as much money as necessary, invest as much time and energy into their demands as needed, and wait for as long as it takes, years and years. But when do we say we've had enough? At what point do we not let them rule our lives? Because, you know, that's exactly what they are doing? Perhaps to some of you money is not an issue, but to some of us it is. God damnit, isn't there anyone out there who can help us with these injustices?
Anyway, I'll keep you posted on the progress. Meanwhile, please share any thoughts on this, especially if you can answer my question about why they are doing this now and why we are all getting different "requests." Also, is there any way to waive the fee the second time around? (yeah, right?)
Sincerely,
M.
1. biographical form
2. medical exam
3. supplement to medical exam
To recap, he applied in January '97; did his fingerprints in early August.
I understand that there isn't much logic to anything the INS does, but I would like to know (if anyone has a clue) why they ask different things from different people. The exam costs about $250 and it just makes me mad that they dont' even acknowledge that.
My husband is so fed up with everything, he insists he wants to circle the option on the form that says "don't submit anything and ask to be considered as is." I, of course, tell him not to mess with the bastards, but then again, perhaps someone should dare not to be cowardly and submissive. I admire him for having the guts to stand up for himself.
We've all been through so much, and yet we are willing to put up with anything they serve up just to get the damn card. We are willing to cough up as much money as necessary, invest as much time and energy into their demands as needed, and wait for as long as it takes, years and years. But when do we say we've had enough? At what point do we not let them rule our lives? Because, you know, that's exactly what they are doing? Perhaps to some of you money is not an issue, but to some of us it is. God damnit, isn't there anyone out there who can help us with these injustices?
Anyway, I'll keep you posted on the progress. Meanwhile, please share any thoughts on this, especially if you can answer my question about why they are doing this now and why we are all getting different "requests." Also, is there any way to waive the fee the second time around? (yeah, right?)
Sincerely,
M.