On conditional GC, wife confess to cheating, thinking of divorce, what happen to my I-751 petition?

[letsgothere]

Hi everybody, i hope someone can give me some insight into what i sould do or the best way to handle my situation at this time.

I have been married for 1.5 yrs now. I got my conditional CG through the same marriage as my wife is USC. Everything had been normal between us untill like 5 months ago when my wife changed. She started lieing, stealing my money, inconsistent and caught her with a guy in our apartment. And just this valentine day, she finally confessed to cheating on me and pregnant out of our marriage.

The thing about the pregancy was that when she told me she was pregant, that was like 3 months ago. I thought the preganancy was mine and i was happy but because i was planning to go back to college and stuffs, we agreed to abort the pregnancy, we did the abortion and now she is telling me the pregnancy was not mine.

Like any human being would feel, all i want is divorce but because of my immigration status, i feel somewhat stucked. I understand that if we divorce, i will have to file for waiver to remove the conditions on my GC myself. But Do you think my I-751 process will be effected with all (cheating, pregnant out of wedlock, all these with proofs) she had done, is it going to make it any faster or easier if we divorce before filing for my I-751.

Or do you think i should just endure her for the time being before filing for divorce. Right now, i dont even know how to love her again as i cant stang her.

Pls let me know what you think and i will greatly appreciate it.

 

[ananga73]

Well that's a tough one! You can go ahead and file for divorce however note that typically the divorce will have to be complete before you can file the I-751. Depending on which state you live in and the regulations, this may not be possible. Do you have overwhelming evidence that your marriage was genuine? If you do then you do not have many problems however if you do not, you will face significant hurdles. You will have to file a waiver though.

My personal course of action would be as follows in order of preference

1. Examine within myself if at all possible I can forgive and have a harmonious relationship with my wife going forward AND she is committed to faithful behavior.
2. Hold on until after my I-751 is approved [assuming she will sign the paperwork], then file for divorce
3. File for divorce and be ready to go through the extra scrutiny to prove the short marriage was bona fide. For this option, I recommend getting a lawyer

There is no easy solution. I wish you the best, whichever option you choose.

Hi everybody, i hope someone can give me some insight into what i sould do or the best way to handle my situation at this time.

I have been married for 1.5 yrs now. I got my conditional CG through the same marriage as my wife is USC. Everything had been normal between us untill like 5 months ago when my wife changed. She started lieing, stealing my money, inconsistent and caught her with a guy in our apartment. And just this valentine day, she finally confessed to cheating on me and pregnant out of our marriage.

The thing about the pregancy was that when she told me she was pregant, that was like 3 months ago. I thought the preganancy was mine and i was happy but because i was planning to go back to college and stuffs, we agreed to abort the pregnancy, we did the abortion and now she is telling me the pregnancy was not mine.

Like any human being would feel, all i want is divorce but because of my immigration status, i feel somewhat stucked. I understand that if we divorce, i will have to file for waiver to remove the conditions on my GC myself. But Do you think my I-751 process will be effected with all (cheating, pregnant out of wedlock, all these with proofs) she had done, is it going to make it any faster or easier if we divorce before filing for my I-751.

Or do you think i should just endure her for the time being before filing for divorce. Right now, i dont even know how to love her again as i cant stang her.

Pls let me know what you think and i will greatly appreciate it.

 

[bigbull99]

Hi everybody, i hope someone can give me some insight into what i sould do or the best way to handle my situation at this time.

I have been married for 1.5 yrs now. I got my conditional CG through the same marriage as my wife is USC. Everything had been normal between us untill like 5 months ago when my wife changed. She started lieing, stealing my money, inconsistent and caught her with a guy in our apartment. And just this valentine day, she finally confessed to cheating on me and pregnant out of our marriage.

The thing about the pregancy was that when she told me she was pregant, that was like 3 months ago. I thought the preganancy was mine and i was happy but because i was planning to go back to college and stuffs, we agreed to abort the pregnancy, we did the abortion and now she is telling me the pregnancy was not mine.

Like any human being would feel, all i want is divorce but because of my immigration status, i feel somewhat stucked. I understand that if we divorce, i will have to file for waiver to remove the conditions on my GC myself. But Do you think my I-751 process will be effected with all (cheating, pregnant out of wedlock, all these with proofs) she had done, is it going to make it any faster or easier if we divorce before filing for my I-751.

Or do you think i should just endure her for the time being before filing for divorce. Right now, i dont even know how to love her again as i cant stang her.

Pls let me know what you think and i will greatly appreciate it.

You said that you are married for 1.5 yrs so you should be filing I 751 soon.
My openion is- wait, get your I 751 approved , and take some time , think about you marriage, every one makes mistakes, if you still think you want a divorce, go a head. But now focus on getting I 751 approved the normal way. concentrate on getting all the documents ready, focus on it.
I can understand what you are going through now, but you need to think about your future.