Joo77:
Did you send your appeal paper to AAO?I am going to send it this Friday.Do you know how long it takes to get a response(I am in VSC)?
You have to send I290B to VSC in 30 days. You have another 30 days to submit other documents, but this goes directly to AAO. The initial appeal has to send to VSC, not AAO. Read the instruction on back of I290B.
By the way,How can your wife transfer back to H4 if she already used her EAD when your I485 is rejected.What document she should send?
File a I539 to transfer her to H4. Documents should include your H1 visa and the marriage certificates, plus fee, passport, I94... The list is in I539 form instruction.
If you are also in VSC,keep in touch.