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camster

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I just need some advice regarding my situation on what to do. i dont know if this is the right forum to do it, i hope i dont get bad coments... i just need some help...

my timeline is written below... my wife is working and is also a student. i brought her to school last thursday which i do everytime she has a class since im not working. she didnt come home that night. ive tried getting hold of her, our friends and family members has been trying to reach her as well but she is not answering her phone. we have not seen her since thursday night until now... i am worrying too much about her that i hasnt have enough sleep for the past 2 days. i just need your help on what i should probably do? should i report her to the police already that she is missing? what if we dnt find her till the time of our interview on dec 15?
 
I think you should report her missing right away...especially if other family members and friends haven't been able to get a hold of her as well. As far as your interview...thats the least of your worries right now...your first priority is to find her.
 
Oh my god... Call the police ASAP!! Like this very instant. Every moment that you waste she could be in greater danger. So CALL THEM NOW!

I don't understand why you appear to be more worried about the greencard interview than about finding your wife, but people do react strangely when they are very stressed.

And by the way, don't worry about jeopardizing anything for yourself by calling the police. Perhaps you are from a country where people are worried about getting involved with the police, but this is not something you need to worry about here. So, do call the police right away!
 
IM85U said:
This is a very odd post. "My wife is missing, what if we don't find her before the interview?" Odd reaction...
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I agree. I've read your previous threads and I couldn't help but notice that you got married after 60 days of knowing each other. Maybe your wife offered to help you out with your immigration status but got cold feet now when immigration interview is approaching. Whatever the case, triple-check with her family & friends that she is not hiding from you, AND... CALL THE POLICE @ 911...
 
thank you for all your reaction... i was stressed thank you for those who realized that (thank you sudhany). and i pitty those people who think that the marriage was just for immigration purpose. you dont know me so dont judge me. im wondering now why you're thinking that way... is it because thats what exactly your husband/wife did to you... im just wondering now... by the way my wife got home already and we are happy again. she left a note for me that i didnt notice since i was already stressed out since she didnt come home... she just went to a friend who needed her to be there... she left her phone at home that why she wasnt able to call....

by the way, did checked with her family when she was gone and they were also worried... so she was not hiding for me!!! im just happy to realize that not all the times people could be helpfulspecially in this forum!

now i have her back and im happy to have her and she promised never to do that again!
 
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Don't judge too harshly. Many immigrants are not secure here in the US. They are not familiar with the system here and may be relunctant to go to the authorities. I mean some are afraid to pick up the phone and call to find out information from USCIS. I am glad that the wife is ok but if you check this forum again and see this message remember this. EVen if you are an immigrant you have the right to protectionand the right to go to the authorities. It won't be detrimental to you being here. Have faith. God will take care. God Bless You.
 
NeShawn, thank you for being understanding of my situation. I am just so stressed out having no one to turn to in this country and not yet familiar of things here... from me and my wife we would like to express our gratitude to you... thank you and God Bless you and your family!
 
You are most welcome. Most of us here on this forum understand and want to help. Their is always a dark side of life. We have to learn not to dwell there but rather find the beautiful side of living. Stay close to one another for really you only have each other.

Feel free to Private Message me anytime.
 
camster said:
thank you for all your reaction... i was stressed thank you for those who realized that (thank you sudhany). and i pitty those people who think that the marriage was just for immigration purpose. you dont know me so dont judge me. im wondering now why you're thinking that way... is it because thats what exactly your husband/wife did to you... im just wondering now... by the way my wife got home already and we are happy again. she left a note for me that i didnt notice since i was already stressed out since she didnt come home... she just went to a friend who needed her to be there... she left her phone at home that why she wasnt able to call....

by the way, did checked with her family when she was gone and they were also worried... so she was not hiding for me!!! im just happy to realize that not all the times people could be helpfulspecially in this forum!

now i have her back and im happy to have her and she promised never to do that again!
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I am very glad that it turned out to be nothing serious. I think the reason most reacted strongly, was simply b/c they were questioning your priorities, which seemed to indicate that the GC was more important than your wife being gone.

My first thought upon reading your posting was that it merely came across the wrong way. You seemed to be stressed and just verbally "vomited" everything ---- very normal given the circumstances. Don't worry about it.

Best wishes and keep well
 
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