Met on xbox live!!

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Gucci

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Ok here goes!!

Im 27yr old British female currently finishing my degree (study, live and work in UK) (few months left), whilst playing on xbox live i started chatting to an American guy (lives is SC and works fulltime with a job) and from there we started video chatting every single day. We decided we want to start a life together in england but was unable to do that due to im only working part-time and due not have my own place. We decided it would be best if i moved over once i have completed degree but do not know how to go about it. We want to get married straight away but i also want to work. Can some one please help me as i am stuck and i really want to be with this man!!:(:(:(

I'm sorry if this issue has been address in the forum before but its ever so confusing!!
 
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1. Are you in England?
2. Have you met this American man?
3. You want to move to the US through marriage?

I think married people can work, so if you guys were married, yes you'd be able to work, if you can find a job that is.
 
No :(

No i have not met him but have thought about visiting america just so we can get married and then coming back and working a little more so i can save. He is American and lives in south Carolina and im British living in UK. I just want to marry him and put my degree to use.
 
As someone who has met people online including my husband.. umm... DO NOT marry him if you haven't spent time with him. Years ago I met a man I thought was the end all be all. He turned out to be a psychopath. Literally, a psychopath who was also a pathological liar and I had been tricked for months and months. Had I married him, like he wanted me to, believing he was this wonderful man I know known all that time online, without getting to know him in person, I would have truly ruined my life. Use your head. You can't KNOW someone unless you've been with them in person for a while. It would be down right stupid to marry him not having spent in person time with him. I speak from experience. Sure some do it, and it works out, but not usually.
 
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Be very careful. Having been married 3 times I can tell you, you have nothing to lose by taking your time, and everything to gain. What seems like a "must" now, can be hell to get out of and the effects stay with you forever.
 
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