Guys and Gals,
I know that its almost impossible to think of anything positive coming out of this retrogression but if we look hard enough there are a lot of things that may turn out to be positive in the long run. Below is list of a few things that have been going through my mind and after thinking long and hard I am beginning to see some positives.
1. This retrogression has woken me up from my realtively comfortable slumber and reminded me that I cannot under any circumstance take things for granted. There is also a new found sense of urgency in my plans that was lacking before. Sometimes it takes a push to get one going and this retrogression has provided that push for me. This is defenitely positive.
2. This dilemma has has made me think of almost every opportunity I might have outside of this country. I have begun to accept the reality that maybe this may not work out. Before this retrogression the thought of having to leave this country never crossed my mind and I never thought of any other alternative. The positive here is that my mind is far more open now. I am entertaining all sorts of ideas that would never have arisen without this retrogression. My mind had become dull and inactive .. much like the minds of most of the people I work with. Not anymore ...
3. This retrogression has reminded me in no uncertain terms that in my current status I have very limited "rights" in this country. At any time and without notice, draconian immigration laws can uproot me and my family and leave us to fend for ourselves. Having realized this fact I am preparing myself to face the worst if it happens. I do not need mercy, I do not need handouts. It has instilled a sense of pride in who I am and what I stand for. Defenitely a positive; and finally
4. The sheer randomness of the released retrogression dates have proven that things at the DOS, DOL and USCIS can change at any time. Just as this month has brought disaster to our door, another month in the future will bring joy to thousands. The good part about life is that NOTHING lasts forever. The most ironic part is that this depression will be brought to an end by another random and unexplainable policy shift from the agencies that have screwed us over. Just give it time.
Have a great weekend everyone.
cheers,
saras76
I know that its almost impossible to think of anything positive coming out of this retrogression but if we look hard enough there are a lot of things that may turn out to be positive in the long run. Below is list of a few things that have been going through my mind and after thinking long and hard I am beginning to see some positives.
1. This retrogression has woken me up from my realtively comfortable slumber and reminded me that I cannot under any circumstance take things for granted. There is also a new found sense of urgency in my plans that was lacking before. Sometimes it takes a push to get one going and this retrogression has provided that push for me. This is defenitely positive.
2. This dilemma has has made me think of almost every opportunity I might have outside of this country. I have begun to accept the reality that maybe this may not work out. Before this retrogression the thought of having to leave this country never crossed my mind and I never thought of any other alternative. The positive here is that my mind is far more open now. I am entertaining all sorts of ideas that would never have arisen without this retrogression. My mind had become dull and inactive .. much like the minds of most of the people I work with. Not anymore ...
3. This retrogression has reminded me in no uncertain terms that in my current status I have very limited "rights" in this country. At any time and without notice, draconian immigration laws can uproot me and my family and leave us to fend for ourselves. Having realized this fact I am preparing myself to face the worst if it happens. I do not need mercy, I do not need handouts. It has instilled a sense of pride in who I am and what I stand for. Defenitely a positive; and finally
4. The sheer randomness of the released retrogression dates have proven that things at the DOS, DOL and USCIS can change at any time. Just as this month has brought disaster to our door, another month in the future will bring joy to thousands. The good part about life is that NOTHING lasts forever. The most ironic part is that this depression will be brought to an end by another random and unexplainable policy shift from the agencies that have screwed us over. Just give it time.
Have a great weekend everyone.
cheers,
saras76
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