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Just a simple thought, will you keep her father\'s name as your last name? Why exect her to change her name. Try to encourage her to have her own name as is and have respect for you, your father and family name from heart instead of words. we should stop such barbaric MC rituals like getting rid of woman\'s identity on marriage etc. Desi man has been insecure all his life and created more and more of such irrational practices.
You know our society has tried from time to time to chain woman like this, liberate them. You are most likely to be frustrated with GC processing for just a couple of years, woman have been putting up crap like only woman wearing marriage symbol like "Mangal Sutra" or Suhag in forehead as in some customs, Last name change and list goes on. Woman have to get permission from hubby to see parents, call parents even write to parents. Be a role model and bring the Woman like what tamil poet Bharathiar wanted, a revolutionary woman.
Think Woman\'s Liberation or at least try to get the picture from their side. Just have a frank open conversation with your wife and tell us what happened, if you think it is OK. Good Luck.