India/Chine Vs Other

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Friends... from personal experience, there is no difference between applicants from India/China and other countries. I began this process four years ago (LC process began Jan 1997), and I am still waiting for the "privilege" to be allowed to stay, work, and contribute to this country. Don\'t get me wrong, my dream since I remember was to come to the US. Please separate the country, its people, and its values, which I believe are fabulous, and the few people at INS and the government who couldn\'t care less about us.

I have three kids (all born in the US), and I have been in this country for 12 years now. I want to continue waiting, but I cannot help but think that I am wasting the most productive years of my life. For the last four years, I have seen people around me getting promoted, changing jobs, making more money, and move around freely, and the only thing I can do is to let everyone pass me by, worrying that if I loose my job my family will be in financial jeopardy.

Some will say that it is my choice to wait. I can always go back where I came from. I will agree with that, if I had my options down from the beginning. This is like a game where the rules change before, during, and after. When I made the decision to stay around and try, I was told different timelines. Even when I applied for I-485, I was told that "You will have a response in 180 days". Not so! It’s being 18 months and counting. Don\'t change the rules... just tell us what, and when it will happen so we can make our own decision.

These people are playing with our lives and our families’ lives without consideration. Sad but true. Anyway, I said my peace.... I wish all of you, your families, and even our friends at INS health and happiness.

Now back to waiting again.

Thanks
 
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I am totally in the same boat. As I said in one of my other posts, when I think about all the hell we go through just trying to grab a piece of the dream, even without this entire GC process there is so much going on. This GC process is probably going to be the most painful experience in my life ever (I hope). I have gone through financial and family difficulties. But have worked them out. Unfortunately, there is no control over this GC process. That is the reason we all feel so helpless. What a torture.

08/98 - PD (after refiling)
05/00 - ND
10/00 - FP
03/15 - Still feeling the torture
 
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I am not so nice when I talk about shit at INS. I can\'t believe how the sweet, cute little kids/grand-kids of INS commissioner, employees can eat bagel/bread in the breakfast with the immigration blood dripping out of it.
These looters of the land who make policy about legal and illegal immigrants should be injected with foot & mouth disease, so that they can be destroyed without fear of spreading it across America.
I will never be able to remove my anger and hatred for these people in this life.
 
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Thanks to Rajiv Khanna, for keeping this site alive. Atleast people
like us tortured so badly, have some place to write/say something.
And get some kind of mental relaxation. Thanks from deep heart to
Mr Rajiv Khanna. Definately God bless you.

Unfortunate thing about US dream is, everybody is immigrant, but
after becoming residense they forget that they were like us at
some point of time! (:

And those blood sucker recruiters/employers, they will have a bad days, I am sure, may be tomorrow or may be after 20 years.
 
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you are soo right. You never know at what point they will screw up your case. At one day you will think everything will be okay and then you will releaze that they have lost something.
our files are like junk mail to them.

who cares about fair/unfair , few files missing . having million files pending helps them to get overtime money and job security so let the RFEs keep going
 
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