I need some answers....please someone help.

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coffeeman

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I currently in the pending approval or denial of my I-485 application filed by my wife who is U.S. citizen. Our marriage was good the first couple years, then when USCIS asked for more supporting evident for her petition after our interview, she and I started to feel pressure and we have a lot of going on. Our marriage is heading south. We are considering devoice. At the same time the USCIS is requesting for more evident of my application or it will get denied.
Below is my question.

1) Should I withdraw my case or my wife have to withdraw it if we got devoice or before the case is denial?

2) How can one withdraw the application?

3) If a company is willing to sponsor my application as permanent resident, will it affected by my prior withdrawn of application?

Thank you for answering my questions!!!
 
My honest advice..Work on your marriage...and make it go 'NORTH'.
Believe me its easier to satisfy and adjust to the tantrums of your wife compared to the USCIS. So please go ahead a make an honest effort...she can't be that bad. Look at it from a different perspective..it could have been worse.Mebbe even watch some Jerry Springer shows.After all it's been less than two years and it takes for ever to understand a different species..with mood swings and PMS's and full moons and valleys and crests and troughs.
How can you give up so easily. What happened to all those vows that you took. DIVORCE is NOT an option to a solution....a marriage counselor is.
 
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IM85U said:
a rather close-minded answer - Sorry I can't help with the reason you actually posted on here though.
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He said he had been married a couple of years...means his interview date is coming up shortly.They haven't applied for Divorce...they are only 'considering'.Wouldn't it be easier for him to adjust till at least the interview rather than go through the whole process of filing, sponsorship, fees etc..etc and the Looooooong wait after all that....esp if he is going to go through an employment sponsor.
Wouldn't a counselor be a cheaper option at this stage compared to refiling and fees. It would placate both parties...and it does help his case in the future in the sense that at least he made a honest effort to salvage the marriage.Stage two would be for an attorney to try for an amicable settlement.
How can someone recommend Divorce and withdrawal with such little info.
By the way I read your posts. ,,,and I know you are more qualified than me to answer his question.Hopefully it's NOT in a big 'Mess'
Also he needs moral support to hang on till the interview. Give it to him. I am sure he can work it out.God Bless

For Coffeeman..The good Faith Clause
As long as you can prove that your marriage was bona fide, you should have no problem in obtaining the removal of your conditions on your permanent residence. The fact that your wife filed for divorce before your conditional residence expired makes no difference.
As soon as you have your divorce, you can file the waiver to have your conditions removed.Please also read http://www.immigrationlinks.com/news/news1751.htm
 
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indone said:
My honest advice..Work on your marriage...and make it go 'NORTH'.
Believe me its easier to satisfy and adjust to the tantrums of your wife compared to the USCIS. So please go ahead a make an honest effort...she can't be that bad. Look at it from a different perspective..it could have been worse.Mebbe even watch some Jerry Springer shows.After all it's been less than two years and it takes for ever to understand a different species..with mood swings and PMS's and full moons and valleys and crests and troughs.
How can you give up so easily. What happened to all those vows that you took. DIVORCE is NOT an option to a solution....a marriage counselor is.
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The the winner of the 2006 Most Male Chauvenistic Pig award goes to.......INDONE!!!

Two years to understand a different species? Jeez :rolleyes: :confused:
 
eddie_d said:
Two years to understand a different species? Jeez :rolleyes: :confused:
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Nope Nope Nope,,u got it wrong eddie_d ...I said "it takes for ever "....I never said two years. :mad:
Been married for 12 years...and there are still surprises. :D :)
 
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eddie_d said:
Ohh well, OK then you have a point I suppose. :D
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If my wife were to see your/ our remarks :D ...well that would be another surprise :mad: Edit that reward that u gave me unless u wan't a flame thread ... u know the kind 'why do we....'( LOL :D ):D. Ok Ok You deserve to get it back. I guess someone gave that title to you.(Techie? Michael? :D )..keep it. I don't deserve it :)
 
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