Thanks for the info. We received her petition on September of 2002, and up till now it hasn't been approved. I'm asking this because I met someone, that lives in another country, online a year ago. We fell deeply in love, shared picks, have been talking on the phone for long, talked with cam, and I want to live with her in her country, but at the same time, I also want to be able to come back here and visit my family. With the amount of time they are taking to process my mothers petition, I don't know if I will be able to live over there with her any time soon. She's currently 30, and we want to have kids, but if it takes as long as it's supposed to take for me to be able to leave and re enter, I don't know if we will ever have that chance to be together. It really hurts me because I didn't do anything to be here; I was brought here by my family, have been here for nearly 14 years, and I haven't done anything wrong, I've been a lawful person while I'm here , yet I may not be able to be with the person I love most because of Immigration. It's getting to the point where I will have to make the decision between my family and her because if I leave to be with her, I may not be able to see my family for 10 year, and possibly never.