Hi POJ, ADDTX, Bash etcc...how to stop this?

UnFort_User

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Hi All,

I have the following problem for the past 2-3 months (Exactly after the first FP done).

Opening this website and other Immigration related sites almost EVERY 5 mins :( .

If people having RD older than me got approved or no progress in approval in TSC...i am frustrated....upset so much..

Unable to concentrate in work...or anything else...half dead...

So some times i feel like sending mail to TSC that,

I don't want your F****** Green Card..I am with drawing my application..i want to live happily...

SO YOU GUYS DONT GET SURPRISED TO HEAR FROM ME ONE DAY THAT I PULLED OUT FROM THIS F****** GREEN CARD GAME.

THEY (INS) ARE RUTHELESS IDIOTS.... :mad:

RD: MAY-2002
 
Hi, frustration is the game, I am in the same boat, May 2002, no FP, and I don't have to look far for frustration. One of my coworker filed in 2003 already got approved, another filed in 2003 get FP, now yesterday another filed in Dec 2002 get his FP, looks like I am the one left behind... But again, what we can do. I really want to withhold my Federal income tax from INS untill the goverment starts working rationally, at least not ramdonly...
 
you are not the only one

RD/ND: Dec, 2002

Exactly the same problem, but we have to hang in there and believe the end of the tunnel is near, hang in there man!

cai
 
There are lots of people in the same boat....

I know when you say you are feeling frustrated , but don't feel so bad there are lots of people in the same boat as you..Lots of people with ND 2003 have been getting approved and it's but natural to feel bad. Keep the faith we will all get there soon..At least you have done fingerprints we still have to do those..

ND Oct 2002
FP ?????
 
Well, if I have done my FP, I won't be so frustrated... At least I will know my file has been found, instead of burried

ND: May 2002
FP: ???
 
Forget you filed your GC. When it comes comes....

If you want to visit some sites for fun I will send this deals sites and have fun.

http://www.digitaldeals.net/
http://www.deals2buy.com/
http://www.dealsofamerica.com/
http://www.edealworld.com/
http://www.slickdeals.net/
http://www.edealinfo.com/

Try to get free deals or good items with less price which you want to bare from them...visit this sites regularly for avoiding frustation.

Hay, guys I am not mainitaining these sites FYI. Just got from search.

All the best.

BaSh
 
Completey understand and feel what was said.

Here all I can offer to you is to 'be optimistic' and hopeful.

Don't know ur ID 'unfort' mean unfortunate or what?

but whatever you believe on God/???? make your faith like solid 'Fort' unshakeable faith and believe on him. think in this way when the right time come and its is written in your luck you would get ur G.C and noone can stop it. all you need to do whatever struggle you can do, be patient and pray and leave everyting on him. He (God) would make things to happen.

If you feel comfortable change ur ID to somthing good and hopefull like 'Lucky' or whatever u like, and wait. miracle do happens.

I even haven't got/done my FP ppl after me got approval :D , I am very happy for them who approved. and if it is written in my luck I would get it soon too.

Pray for you and pray for all. :D . God do love us all. don't feel gilt/unfortunate urself, He knows the value of you, He don't look to you he look in ur heart. the things going around us is part of life. so make ur faith strong whatever u believe on, and keep ur hope high :D

Good LUck
 
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Dear UnFort:
Keep it calm. I am in the same boat as you are. I am equally frustrated as well. But I know that one day I will get my FP done and I will get my card. The exciting part is when you wait. After you get your card you are not excited anymore. :D
I don't know which country you are from, but the country I am from is a shit hole(pardon my language). Human right voilation during mid day, corruption, inept governmant, injustice , voilance, not respecting eech other. Considering all that I am willing to wait 5 years from now to get the Green.
This country is the greatest in the world. This is a land of opportunity. And it is not easy to be a resident and eventually a citizen. I am praying god and keeping it calm knowing one day it will be over. Nelson Mondela spent 18 years in prison. Waiitng few more months for the GC is nothing.
As my signature says "Not giving Up". Thanks for reading. :)
 
Sounds like you are talking about USA. *hehe

I am in the same boat: since the day I sent them my I485, there's no movement whatsoever. The only thing was when I applied for AP last time, they sent me a RFE saying they couldn't locate my I485. How nice!

I feel exactly the same way - watching all the immigration forum and news update every a few minutes. Don't know if this qualifies 'significant financial loss to the company' as i am obviously not working efficiently and wasting company resource.

I have frozen my home budget because of GC so the deal saving websites wouldn't help me to release my frustration.

Well, the only incentives for me are there are some business i would like to do, my wife can find a job and I can call up my congressman and senator to complain as a citizenship.

pardeshi1 said:
Dear UnFort:
I don't know which country you are from, but the country I am from is a shit hole(pardon my language). Human right voilation during mid day, corruption, inept governmant, injustice , voilance, not respecting eech other. Considering all that I am willing to wait 5 years from now to get the Green.
 
try count 1,000,000,000. After you finish it you will get your GC or you no longer need it. Have fun.
 
Some time it makes me feel angry when the politicion talks about taking care of illigial immigrates while us tax paying honoest law-binding people have no way to have our voice heard...

ND: May 2002
FP: ???
 
Take it easy!!

UnFort_User, don't take any step which will ruin your future. You have come this far, its just a few miles more. Do whatever it takes to keep your calm, exercise, go for a jog round the block or write the letter with all the curses but for heaven's sake do not send it. Its a war of waiting, some people get it easy, some don't, but I believe each one gets their share of bad times, look at those who lost lives in Russia or lost their property belongings in huricanes and other causes like wars etc. WE are better off, we have EAD, we have jobs a roof over our head and some of us, very nice families with kids. Count your blessings dear friend, easy to say I know, but never take decisions when you are angry as they are always wrong. I agree with Bash, do not let GC run your life, if you want to buy a house, do so, buy furniture, do so, visit homecountry, get a parole and go ahead, don't take decisions based on GC, finally all of us are praying that we get out of this web soon.
 
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