anajoti,
which is better ?
'waiting endlessly without a clue in sight as to what has happened to your case , whether the file even exists?"
or
"atleast knowing that your FILE exists after all these years and 'some' action has been taken ?"
Well, I went thru option 1 for about 32 months, along with everyone else who had the bad luck of submitting I485 at TSC between 05/01 and 09/01. Now I'm going thru option 2, with a small minority of other people, while the great majority of participants are posting "APPROVED", "FREE AT LAST", "HELLO FREEDOM" type messages celebrating their approvals. As much as I'm happy for all of them, I cannot put any positive spin on what's happening to me and my case. I feel like I've been cheated and wronged, and the only thing that will make me feel better is an approval notice.
Jaysee, you are doing a good thing posting here, trying to keep people's spirits and hopes up. Whoever manages to feel better and more positive as a result of it, well, more power to them. I gave INS/USCIS a benefit of a doubt and patiently waited my turn, and when that turn finally came, then I was basically told to join a different queue and take another number. Sorry if I have a negative attitude, but I always call things the way I see them.