I am also in the same boat. My I-485 and I 140 receipt date is Aug 18, 2005.
I have already recieved EAD and AP and also the finger printing code 3 request which is due on October 14, 2005. I am leaving my home country to get married in Dec 2005 and H-4 process at least take month or so so I can not bring my future wife before late Jan or early Feb. I have heared that some EB -2 non national intrest cases also approved in few months from TX service center. Need to know practically is it ok to move ahead in this direction???
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