Itriedbaby
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Im trying not to make this a long story, its going to take you less than 2 minutes if you past the 4th grade.
. I have a conditional green card through marriage, I married my wife a year ago, she was pregnant by then.
We have a little princess shes 5 months old , I love her to death, cant live without her... but her mom is really ****ing up my life. I could dig and find more than ten reasons for me to leave her.
During pregnancy she was acting weird, after my daughter was born she acts worse, telling me that I lover my daughter more than I love her, or that I have another woman or that I'm looking for a girlfriend etc... my conclusion is she needs help, and she is bipolar, not mild bipolar or low but a high level of this thing.
I told her that she needs to get help from a doctor or do something to save this marriage, but after months of daily fights over stupid little crap Its time for me to have some balls and file for divorce or get legal separation until she seeks help. Everytime we fight she asks me to leave or find another woman, I could find me a new woman if i wanted to by this time but I dont want to cheat on her, Im mad at her but I feel sorry at the same time because my daughter is going to grow up and shes going to realize why I left, just like his kid from her previous relationship noticing her mom is nuts. She wasnt like this when I met her
totally different loving person, I could find me a girl without kids but I thought this one was more serious, family oriented etc... she doesnt care if her kids grow up without a father figure.(she has a 5 year old kid from previous relation and I treat him like one of my own).
this is only 15% of what goes on everyday... I could go on ...... and on.... etc...
so shes making threats of not letting me see my daughter, is this legal ? if i record her *** saying that to me will she get in trouble? I dont want her to lose custody because I know she loves her kids , it just that she needs some type of medication, she wouldnt kill anybody thats for sure but me living with her is not an option anymore
if she doesnt file for child support on me and deny my right to see my daughter can i take her to court ? I dont mind paying child support , its my daughter afterall, I just want to keep in touch with her until the day I die.
, is Being a "greencard holder" VS US citizen is a problem when it comes to custody issues, divorce etc.. ?
last question, My greencard will expire in 14 months from now, can I get an extension of it if Im still fighting divorce/custody ? or will they deny and suspend my status if we don't file "jointly" that paper we're suppose to send three months before expiration card? (i think its i171 or 751 something)...
I could suck it up and be with her until i get the permanent card but I didnt get married to get this, I had so many USC girlfriends in the past but I was young and wanted to enjoy my young years of life... I've been in this country 75% of my life, never been arrested, lots of family members are war veterans or still kicking assez overseas, in fact I would join i could...)
sorry this is my last question, what happens if i just move out of the house? is this legal or she can claim I "abandoned" her... ?
oh and Im not bashing on "single moms" but theres always a reason why their single , only god can judge , my mom was a single mother too.
. I have a conditional green card through marriage, I married my wife a year ago, she was pregnant by then.
We have a little princess shes 5 months old , I love her to death, cant live without her... but her mom is really ****ing up my life. I could dig and find more than ten reasons for me to leave her.
During pregnancy she was acting weird, after my daughter was born she acts worse, telling me that I lover my daughter more than I love her, or that I have another woman or that I'm looking for a girlfriend etc... my conclusion is she needs help, and she is bipolar, not mild bipolar or low but a high level of this thing.
I told her that she needs to get help from a doctor or do something to save this marriage, but after months of daily fights over stupid little crap Its time for me to have some balls and file for divorce or get legal separation until she seeks help. Everytime we fight she asks me to leave or find another woman, I could find me a new woman if i wanted to by this time but I dont want to cheat on her, Im mad at her but I feel sorry at the same time because my daughter is going to grow up and shes going to realize why I left, just like his kid from her previous relationship noticing her mom is nuts. She wasnt like this when I met her
totally different loving person, I could find me a girl without kids but I thought this one was more serious, family oriented etc... she doesnt care if her kids grow up without a father figure.(she has a 5 year old kid from previous relation and I treat him like one of my own).this is only 15% of what goes on everyday... I could go on ...... and on.... etc...
so shes making threats of not letting me see my daughter, is this legal ? if i record her *** saying that to me will she get in trouble? I dont want her to lose custody because I know she loves her kids , it just that she needs some type of medication, she wouldnt kill anybody thats for sure but me living with her is not an option anymore
if she doesnt file for child support on me and deny my right to see my daughter can i take her to court ? I dont mind paying child support , its my daughter afterall, I just want to keep in touch with her until the day I die.
, is Being a "greencard holder" VS US citizen is a problem when it comes to custody issues, divorce etc.. ?
last question, My greencard will expire in 14 months from now, can I get an extension of it if Im still fighting divorce/custody ? or will they deny and suspend my status if we don't file "jointly" that paper we're suppose to send three months before expiration card? (i think its i171 or 751 something)...
I could suck it up and be with her until i get the permanent card but I didnt get married to get this, I had so many USC girlfriends in the past but I was young and wanted to enjoy my young years of life... I've been in this country 75% of my life, never been arrested, lots of family members are war veterans or still kicking assez overseas, in fact I would join i could...)
sorry this is my last question, what happens if i just move out of the house? is this legal or she can claim I "abandoned" her... ?
oh and Im not bashing on "single moms" but theres always a reason why their single , only god can judge , my mom was a single mother too.