OK, I don't know what kind of response I'm going to get - emotions seem to run pretty high here! 
I am in "the beginning stages," shall we say, of dating a man (we're both in our 20s) who has been in the US, undocumented, for about 11 years. If we mutually decide that we want to go on with this relationship, we will be looking at marriage. However, I'm concerned about whether or not he will be able to obtain permanent residency. I will definitely insist on talking about the case with a qualified lawyer, but right now I don't feel we're even at that level of commitment. I just don't want either of us to waste time or energy on a hopeless case. I don't think I'm prepared to move to Mexico for ever and ever!
I'm trying to do some research on the probabilities of this. My biggest concern is that he has told me he did drugs in the past. Of course getting drugs involves dealers ... also I think he tried rehab. I'm not after relationship advice - people who have known for quite a while before I met him have confidence that he's lived clean.
But I understand this will have to be disclosed on the I-485, although he never got arrested or anything. Will that mean an automatic denial? Is this stuff decided on a case-by-case basis? If anyone can share their experiences with this, I'd appreciate it. Thank you!
I am in "the beginning stages," shall we say, of dating a man (we're both in our 20s) who has been in the US, undocumented, for about 11 years. If we mutually decide that we want to go on with this relationship, we will be looking at marriage. However, I'm concerned about whether or not he will be able to obtain permanent residency. I will definitely insist on talking about the case with a qualified lawyer, but right now I don't feel we're even at that level of commitment. I just don't want either of us to waste time or energy on a hopeless case. I don't think I'm prepared to move to Mexico for ever and ever!
I'm trying to do some research on the probabilities of this. My biggest concern is that he has told me he did drugs in the past. Of course getting drugs involves dealers ... also I think he tried rehab. I'm not after relationship advice - people who have known for quite a while before I met him have confidence that he's lived clean.
But I understand this will have to be disclosed on the I-485, although he never got arrested or anything. Will that mean an automatic denial? Is this stuff decided on a case-by-case basis? If anyone can share their experiences with this, I'd appreciate it. Thank you!