OK since Want asked me to, I wont say no!
I am a refugee form Iran, I cam throu HIAS (resettelment Agency) for Jews which takes car of other religion as well. If you have suppot in US which in my case was my aunt, It is the best way. So basically I am minority religion in my Country (I really had problems, government to my family and I could not parctice anything overthere {I am not religous} but not even that much + not able to continue my education) and I we got married just right before I apply for my GC, and then I thought probably she can claim the same thing in Turkey, The reason she did not go with HIAS like me because she is Muslim, HIAS does anything for all religions but not Muslims. She was in Turkey for One year, she had alot of problems, even more than she had in Iran, and UNHCR is responsible for refugees in Turkey. we never got any answer back, and if we would, it would take year and a half more, to get visa, and probably more to get here.
We decided, that she can go back home and stay there, atleast with my parents and her parents, till I finish the paperwork, and here I am,.
She is not in Turkey anymore, and reallly we dont want to go over there anymore + Bird's flu is all over the place in Turkey (Some people have died) so it is a good reaon to not going there.
I have not figured it out, how can I bring her here. But at the same time, not disappointed. Still optimist to life and future.
So we will see what will happen to our life.
Good luck to all of you guys,
and I hope this year will be the on of the best years in your life.
Regards,
Nas