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Just to let you know, the interview was not private. My husband was next to me the whole time.

I have never let my husband control my life. Afterall he came to Germany with me. I just have to make sure now, that his desires to go back "for a bit" don't take control and ruin what we started here. The interview is tomorrow already, I will explain to the officer that I don't want to go.

Actually, I don't see it as a relationship issue, and I understand being in Germany must be hard for him too. We don't ever argue, we just disagree on this one thing. But I know it would be our complete financial ruin.

We do have close local friends, even American friends. My husband likes Germany and says he wants to live here ultimately but he needs to go back for a gew years. Why, I don't understand. I did have friends in the US, hobbies, my job. So that wasn't the problem. He was supposed to start a job in...

So far he hasn't agreed to any counseling... A few months ago, I talked to my husband about his immigration idea and that I do not think it is a good idea and that we won't be able to survive on our own. I told him if he goes through with the VISA process, him and his mom will get a reality...

I know it really worries me too and what does not make it easier is his family. I will take some action later this month. Hopefully it will help. Counseling would only be possible if my husband would agree.

I wanted to update. We do have an info pass appt. tommorrow. I still don't approve of his plans but he will be able to get more info this way and hopefully see things more clearly. His current plans are to have his mother pay for the immigration process with her tax money. He is also hoping to...

Thank you for explaining. I hope he will come around and understand his plan is crazy. I will go to the Infopass appointment with him, he needs to hear from one of the officers how untealistic it actually is.

Aside from the fact that we could not afford marriage counseling, we don't have problems aside from him being foolish, unstable in his decisions and immature about this particular idea. He is certainly not that way about other things, but he does not know much about life and how hard it can be...

Aside from the fact that we could not afford marriage counseling, we don't have problems aside from him being foolish, unstable in his decisions and immature about this particular idea. He is certainly not that way about other things, but he does not know much about life and how hard it can be...

Well, with how the situation is now, it is likely we would end up on food stamps (complete well fare is not possible if the sponsor does not approve I was told) or other assistance. Which is why I wanted to wait with any moves until we can sustain ourselves. It is also harder to get off of...

Hello everyone! Just recently my husband decided he wants to move back to the US, after we left everything for a life in Germany. I am a German Citizen, but came to the US in 2007, receiving my green card shortly after arrival. After divorcing my former Sponsor, my Ex-husband, I was planning...