Recent content by Meredith

Thank you very much for the understanding. To tell you the truth - I prefer to be beaten up than dealing with mental illness. They hurt whoever care for them. It sickens my stomach following some of the replies. So, I didn't check this website for a while. In addition, I am so sorry for what...

That is what I am thinking too. Obsessive hostile argumentative for nothing. Thank you very much, bps01. It clears my mind. Also, thanks for akatu and xkuger. Big thanks for everyone who has tried to help. Best luck to all of you too.

Hello, please let me to express my gratitude towards all of the kind suggestions/advice/comments. I did not give up until I was down :( . I do not need to glorify myself how did I take care of my husband - it is irrelevant in this forum. So, it is time for me to take care of myself. If it sounds...

Thank you for watching out for me. I am newbie here. Hope to know how other people are dealing with this kind of situation. I still don't have clue how to take the next step.

Hello, Suzy977, Dani, and problem2006: Thank you so much. I am still trying to find a way out of this horror. After such a long struggle, I have to give up on him. The stress has also taken a heavy toll on me physically. I do suffered severely because of him. Any insight? Anyone out there...

Deeply appreciate, IM85U. I was depleted to the extreme that I forgot that I was walking downstairs twice... Each time, following his psychotic episode, my brain became empty. I have to comb through things and think for myself now.

Definitely, I have been caring him for more than a year by working to pay bills, providing medical insurance, cooking seven days a week, doing all house cleaning, tried to accompany his doctor's visits, tried to send him to the hospital...etc. When we were married, the vows said that "for better...

Thank you so much for the comforting words. I am still working and be able to pay his medications and couseling visits by my insurance. No, he does not have a legal guardian. So, I couldn't even supervise his medication intake. I ever talked with his doctor once and he threaten me that he...

Hi, Everyone, Please help me sort out the mess. My I-485 is still pending. I got married with my husband, a USA, a year ago. He has mental illness, like bipolar disorder. He either is depressed or hyper. When he is depressed, he sleeps all day long, not to mention that the bed is smelly. When...