Recent content by kookaburra49

Hi, My wife and I have been physically (but not legally) separated, although we have decided that it's over between us. I am on a conditional GC expiring in June 2010, and am considering divorce on the grounds of constructive abandonment. We live in NY, where you have to be legally spearated...

thank you Smiriayl, The way things are going, we will not agree to divorce yet, because she needs my health insurance and tuition benefits (i'm a professor, she is a student at the same U), even though she doesn't want to work on the marriage. You are absolutely correct: I married for love...

I would appreciate some input on my situation, to weigh my options. I am on conditional GC, expiring in June 2010. In the meanwhile, my marriage is falling apart. We have been physically separated for 2 months, although not legally separated. My options seem to be 1. Finalize divorce...