Hi Yellowrock
I saw many of ur posts..i can feel your pain...
My 2 cents on some the replies here....
Many ppl are going through different kind of pain.
Of course family related personal which matters most..
I personally going through very bad patch from last 8 years, problem started by shocking death of Family member and then when I started taking responsibly and one after another painful experience… some of them solved some of them were momentarily, some problem context changed and some of them got to live with it…
Started GC process, I consider this is very very low prio problem as compare to other problems, started in July 2002, initially Lawer make few mistakes and missed the 2002 Feb/March California month and then ended up in PEBC, they screw-up the LCA still shows in progress at PEBC, survived several layoffs but after several attempts manage to get sub labor from same company and got 140 approval and 485 pending, now another problem of NC.
Every time I thought this is the end of problems and i will have very good life but one after another something new (Not small problem/ problem which really hurts)….
As per my close friend I already hit the bottom of the sea…it will not go further, but looks like still something is pulling me further down.. so there is no end.
Finally after 8 years all this problems caused some serious health issues.. some of them recovered and some of them are in progress of recovery.
Anyways now you may be thinking why I am telling this here. I seen many augments on the forum about GOD believing and praising… read post from fellow forum friend about “believing in god” and other post from somebody “God delusion”
Don’t know which one but multiple things can help to solve the problems (Same like ppl in this forum share experience that they call senator, POJ method, infopass, FL some FBI director. Some how something triggers and gets approval” So instead of doing nothing just try something.
Sometime I feel real life is same like this immigration process (TSC)
yes there is PD, RD and for some ppl it works (lucky ppl ) but for some ppl it doesn’t. Some time it makes sense some time doesn’t. Many ppl try to explain some kind of theory and try to put this in some kind of formula (I heard Karma) many times hard to believe….
So in summary,
1) Don’t want to discuss about GOD but believing god, praying will help as compare to not believing. It will give u some strength to face it. It is not only faith but it’s a feedback process in your control system to give a try and have several attempts. If you are well balanced u need not to.
2) Discussing problem with your close one will release some pressure and might help to make proper decision some direction which off course you have to choose. Sometime in anger or pain, we make mistake in making decisions. Some times other person can think out of the box of the situation as compare to person in that situation
3) Don’t feel bad about problems my friend, you are not alone many are in pain and trying different ways to fix it. This might help to release some stress that you are not alone.
4) Your first debut start with survival, you are the strongest who survived or manage to get life out of million sperms…. So try to take care of your health in all this difficult situations....
I know it is very difficult but what option we have other than try, pray, survives sometime something might work
Ladude10
1st LC: PD July 2002 CA EB3 PBEC Status: in progress...
2nd LC (Substitution) PD Jan 2000
I-140 RD 09/18/2006 AD 10/04/2006
485 is in TSC
I765 RD 12/8/06 AD 12/29/06
I131 RD 12/8/06 AD 1/08/07
I485 RD 12/8/06 LUD 12/31/06, 01/24/07
FP code 3 and bio done on 12/29/06
take it easy, but really i'm serious here. All i can say is, compare yourself with another fellow in much deeper trouble than you. And that for sure should give you some relief, not because you are happy at his hardships, but because GOD didn't let you go thru such horrible things.