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Hello there,
I have been married to this girl for almost 3 months now. I have been living with her for a year and half now. We are still married. We just had a baby boy. He was a little premature. ( 5 and 1/2 weeks). He is still in the hospital cause they said they gonna monitor him for a couple of weeks more.
My wife has a severe problem. She gets off on me for no reason. She threathens to commit suicide. She even took like a whole bunch of tylenol pills. I had to call 911 for help. I asked her why she took those pills. She says that her mom had called and she got all pissed off. I had to call her social worker because I was really worried that she would do something like that in the future. Her social worker advised me that I should take her to the emergency mental clinic. I took her to the clinic and there I found out that she was mentally and physically abused by her father when she was 17. She was even admitted to a mental clinic in Pennsylvania for 7 or 8 months forcibly by her parents. They are not there real parents. She was adopted from India when she was 6 yrs. old. I am here at Denver. I always call her grandmom who is a very sweet lady. She knows everythings that going on. She always advises me what to do and what not to. My wife threaten to leave me a couple of days ago. She says she doesn't care about the baby. She packed her bags and then she was ready to leave. I was worried and then call 911 for help. The cops got over and try to control her because she is always violent. The cops told me that they can do nothing becuase she is an adult and she wants to leave. I call her grandma rightaway she says if she wants to leave, let her go, you can do nothing about it. I am so worried. She left and got back in couple of hours. She says she doesn't wanna leave now. But she is always violent. I work 6 days a week, 10 hrs a day. I go to see my baby rightaway after work then go back home. When I get back home there goes trouble. She abuses me , uses an F word, call me names etc. etc. and then starts to fight for no reason. She smokes inside our apartment. I asked her not to smoke inside the apartment but she doesn't care. There are so many things she has done to me. I am so helpless. Please advise. Thank you.....Julian
