I agree that it is extremely important when one is 'adjusting status based on marriage petition to demonstrate that marriage is legit' but once person has conditional green card, doesn't that say that USCIS deemed the marriage as a 'real marriage' at that junction? Although USCIS has a lot of 'control' so to speak about our lives, they do not have ALL POWER. !!!!
When one becomes a 'conditional permanent resident', don't they have now within reach certain rights that we in the US proclaim as our creed. Conditional residents have as much right to determine their personal lives as an American citizen. How many US spouses work in different states for better pay? My own brother drives trucks. He is away for weeks at a time traveling all over the states. He takes care of his family. Every so often he can spend a complete week with them before he hits the road again. Just because Obj... wants to better his life and work hard for a living (not to mention a honest living) and even bring his wife into a better financial status does not mean that he isn't committed to this marriage. It is the US wife who refuses to embrace change and unwilling to sacrifice her means of security to support him. It is not up to USCIS to determine where and how this family should live, it is their choice. I believe he has the right to choose without having to have held over his held his right to be in the US. He certainly is willing to carry the responsibility of a family.
I am baffled at the wife by her actions!! Obj.. stated in his original post that when he got his EAD, he was not able to find a job there. I have another friend who is in the process of adjusting status. He too was not able to find employment in the city they lived, so they decided to relocate to another state and now an opportunity has opened up for him. Believe me when I say the biggest problem for them was? Can you guess? $$$$$$ She was willing to move to work that out.
It is about sacrifice. NOT USCIS!!!!!!
When one becomes a 'conditional permanent resident', don't they have now within reach certain rights that we in the US proclaim as our creed. Conditional residents have as much right to determine their personal lives as an American citizen. How many US spouses work in different states for better pay? My own brother drives trucks. He is away for weeks at a time traveling all over the states. He takes care of his family. Every so often he can spend a complete week with them before he hits the road again. Just because Obj... wants to better his life and work hard for a living (not to mention a honest living) and even bring his wife into a better financial status does not mean that he isn't committed to this marriage. It is the US wife who refuses to embrace change and unwilling to sacrifice her means of security to support him. It is not up to USCIS to determine where and how this family should live, it is their choice. I believe he has the right to choose without having to have held over his held his right to be in the US. He certainly is willing to carry the responsibility of a family.
I am baffled at the wife by her actions!! Obj.. stated in his original post that when he got his EAD, he was not able to find a job there. I have another friend who is in the process of adjusting status. He too was not able to find employment in the city they lived, so they decided to relocate to another state and now an opportunity has opened up for him. Believe me when I say the biggest problem for them was? Can you guess? $$$$$$ She was willing to move to work that out.
It is about sacrifice. NOT USCIS!!!!!!