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Im getting married to a man in Ghana. I havent heard much of how fast things go int this country. We have filed an I-129f form and we are pretty anxious to see each other again. We have no doubt that we sent all that was requested. We do have a concern about the age thing. We are not sure if they will judge us because we are 20 years apart. We have met and spent 2 weeks together. It has been nearly a year since we saw each other. When we recieve the visa, how soon do we have to file for the I-485? If, by any chance we do not get the visa, how hard will iy be for me to move and live in Ghana? Can anyone please help, we miss each other so much.