Best way to request for younger sister and mother.
Hello Rajiv,
I am happy to report that as of February 17 2011, I am a U.S. Citizen ... However, now I wish to bring my sister to live here as well (She lives in my home country, Venezuela).
I am 26 yrs old. I have been married for 5 years to my husband (born U.S. citizen) who is 27 and will be 28 in July. My sister is 16, she lives with my paternal Grandparents and my parents are divorced.
I had called an immigration lawyer friend of a family member with all these questions, but I wasn't satisfied with his answers.
1. How long would it take if I just plain and simple apply for my sister to come here?
The lawyer said 10 to 12 years, is this true?
2. Since that's too long I asked if I could adopt her?
The lawyer said if I did, it would have to be BEFORE she turns 16, and that since she turned 16 in May, that would be too late to adopt her. He also said I would have to look at adoption laws in Venezuela. I think there was something about me having to be a lot older than her than I actually am, but I don't remember how much older. He mentioned something about the "Convention Country Adoption Treaty". And that I should call an adoption agency as the fastest route and check about this. ***My mom said she heard that you now can be older than 16 in order for you to be able to be adopted, is this true?
3. Since this sounded too complicated to me, I just asked what if someone else in my family (like an uncle who's much older - 40 something) could adopt her?
He insisted that they have to adopt her BEFORE she turns 16 and that it's too late for that. Also, he said that adoption would cost 10s of thousands of dollars (which I obviously don't have!!!). He said they would have to apply to adopt her at an adoption agency here in the US, but that it couldn't happen because she's already 16.
4. Since this was not getting me anywhere I asked what else could I do to bring her here?
He said she should get a Student Visa, either for her to finish high-school here, or come when she goes to college... But if it was a High-School, it would have to be a private high-school and that is expensive. Plus I came here as an International Student to go to college and I know how expensive that is, and there is simply not money for that right now ....
5. Since I was really disappointed I asked what if I apply for my mom to come here, and then whenever my mother gets her green card, then SHE could apply for my sister to come here as her dependent?
The lawyer said it could take 10 years as well.
My questions to you are:
6. Do you know of any other way I could bring my sister as soon as possible?
7. If I ask for my mom, how long will it take before she has a Job Permit and a Green Card?
8. If my mom comes here, and she gets a job permit and a Green Card, can she THEN apply for my sister?
9. If my mom does apply for my sister, how long until my sister is actually living here in the states, obtains a job permit and obtains a green card herself ???
10. Do you know of any scholarship programs that would pay for everything for an International Student ? or any International Student Scholarships at all?
11. On a separate note, I have an AUNT who will get her citizenship soon, she only has the "Ceremony" left to go to. And she is my father's sister. If my AUNT applies for my Father to come how fast will he be able to come - how long will that take? and could he bring my sister with him - as a dependent? What if he gets a job visa?
12. Also, is it best for my mom to stay in Venezuela while I submit paperwork for her (Consular processing)? Or is it best for her to come here with her current tourist visa, and then apply to change her status while she's here? Which one is faster??
Thank you for all and any help or answers you can provide.
Melissa