Impacts of unfairness and delayed in DOL process -
Friends,
I would like to add few more lines to my story.
On Career - Since I had to keep my present job, in last 4 years of waiting for LC, I have certainly lost many many rewarding oppurtunities. Will somebody compensate for this ? Nobody will.
Family - After living for about 5 1/2 years in Maryland, with wife & children well setlled to the environment, families, friends, communities and my involvement in community issues, we did not even dreamt that we might have to say good bye to Maryland and move to Los Angeles. The attachment is so much that, even my 4 1/2 years old son often bugs us to return to maryland. In just one stroke of management decision, our whole life turned upside down. More ever we are more closer to uncertain future and financial losses.
Financials - In absence of a GC and uncertain future, it was foolishness for me to think of Buying a house. Result was housing cost has soured to the skies and looks home buying a impossible task.
Now, with delayed LC, change of employer and new rules for Visa stamping, I can not even make plans for visit my ailing parents. My father is sick nad bed ridden. The Visa stamping in Chennai consulate just makes me go dizzy for days.
In all this drama, now I am back to the LC queue in the last spots behind about 200,000 cases which are ahead of me. More ever with LC filed in NO-RIR EB3 category, VISA retrogrssion news just make you to fall deep into demoral state and depressions. Also even my attorney is not sure of getting 9th year H1 extension approved due to change in employers and new LC application is not 365 days old. So packup to India seems certain.
With all this, only thing keeping me and my family in high spirits is our faith and we are just leaving here on daily basis as our days are numbered.
As one of the lines of Punkaj Udhas's famous Song " Chitti Aai hai......" says
"... Apne Ghar me bhi hai roti ."
Therefore mentally prepared to move to India.... For a family union and good future for our children.
Thanks for all your nice words and compliments.
Regards,
ksyed
Friends,
I would like to add few more lines to my story.
On Career - Since I had to keep my present job, in last 4 years of waiting for LC, I have certainly lost many many rewarding oppurtunities. Will somebody compensate for this ? Nobody will.
Family - After living for about 5 1/2 years in Maryland, with wife & children well setlled to the environment, families, friends, communities and my involvement in community issues, we did not even dreamt that we might have to say good bye to Maryland and move to Los Angeles. The attachment is so much that, even my 4 1/2 years old son often bugs us to return to maryland. In just one stroke of management decision, our whole life turned upside down. More ever we are more closer to uncertain future and financial losses.
Financials - In absence of a GC and uncertain future, it was foolishness for me to think of Buying a house. Result was housing cost has soured to the skies and looks home buying a impossible task.
Now, with delayed LC, change of employer and new rules for Visa stamping, I can not even make plans for visit my ailing parents. My father is sick nad bed ridden. The Visa stamping in Chennai consulate just makes me go dizzy for days.
In all this drama, now I am back to the LC queue in the last spots behind about 200,000 cases which are ahead of me. More ever with LC filed in NO-RIR EB3 category, VISA retrogrssion news just make you to fall deep into demoral state and depressions. Also even my attorney is not sure of getting 9th year H1 extension approved due to change in employers and new LC application is not 365 days old. So packup to India seems certain.
With all this, only thing keeping me and my family in high spirits is our faith and we are just leaving here on daily basis as our days are numbered.
As one of the lines of Punkaj Udhas's famous Song " Chitti Aai hai......" says
"... Apne Ghar me bhi hai roti ."
Therefore mentally prepared to move to India.... For a family union and good future for our children.
Thanks for all your nice words and compliments.
Regards,
ksyed