Marriage Fraud, K1 Visa, Immigration, Violence Against Women Act
Attorney Timeline
March 25, 2009 -
I was served (handed) a "state" of Hawaii Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) at the front reception area of the local police station. I was to be in court on
April 8.
March 27, 2009 - I walk into the respected Honolulu law office of Coates & Frey and explain that my Immigrant wife’s seven (7) serious verbal allegations were false, and I wanted them to defend me (immediate USD 3,000 retainer fee).
April 6, 2009 - My attorney waited until two (2) days before my court appearance to have our strategy meeting. I kept informing my attorney that I did not do what my wife alleged, and I wanted to fight the charges.
My attorney asked me point blank,
“can you prove 100% that all seven (7) serious verbal allegations are not true”? I told her “yes, but we have to be in court in two days, let’s get to work”.
I explain about my attempts to communicate with my
“federal” Department of Homeland Security and about my hand delivered weekly letters.
I inform my attorney that my wife left her Thai diary, but that was not important to her.
My attorney told me I would go to court alone to save attorney expenses, and if my wife asked for more than a one (1) year Temporary Restraining Order (TRO), that I would ask for a continuance without any findings that any of the written language is true.
I remember immediately saying to my attorney, “I’m not agreeing to that”, and she shot back and said “yes you are”. I told her again “I’m not agreeing to that” and she shot back again and said “yes you are”.
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Very Important - My attorney told me that if I agreed to the
time only “state” of Hawaii Temporary Restraining Order (TRO),
with the following wording: The Parties have agreed to the issuance of this Order but the Respondent (me) denies the Allegations in the Petition,
THEN I would still be able to communicate with my United States
“federal” Department of Homeland Security.
Of course I have to communicate with my United States
“federal” government. My wife lied to the
“state” of Hawaii, and she served me a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) with seven (7) serious
false verbal allegations.
I had already hand delivered six (6) letters to the United States Department of Homeland Security, and who knows what other lies and tales my wife was telling my
"federal" government. In my eyes and thinking; the
“federal” government trumps the
“state” government…
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Important - It is two days before my court appearance and my attorney had me so scared that no matter how much evidence I had, unless I could prove
“100 percent” that all seven (7) serious false verbal allegations are not true, then it would be unwise
(the odds) for me to let the
“state” Circuit Judge make that decision.
The law in the United States is you are innocent until proven guilty. That is not the case with a
“state” Temporary Restraining Order; it is the person who has been accused that has to prove they are innocent of all (false) allegations. Again, I could not get an answer to how I
supposedly threatened to kill my wife.
My attorney was informing me, if I wanted to communicate with my own United States
“federal” government;
then follow her instructions. Coates & Frey is a well respected Hawaii law firm, and you listen to your legal team.
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April 8, 2009 (court date 1) - I went to court and did what my attorney instructed me to do. My wife was asking for a two (2) to three (3) year Order for Protection (TRO). I asked for a continuance; without any findings that any of the written language was true.
April 22, 2009 (court date 2) - My attorney met me at court. I tried to discuss my defense and innocence with my attorney, but she was not happy with my discussion.
My wife was asking for a three (3) year Order for Protection (TRO) and my attorney told me that before the court proceedings she would attempt to negotiate a one (1) year. My attorney, and my wife’s attorney, went back and forth, and before we met the
“state” Circuit Judge my attorney explained that a one (1) year, time only, Order for Protection had been agreed to.
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When we met the
“state” Circuit Judge, my wife’s attorney immediately asked for a three (3) year Order for Protection (TRO).
When I realized what was going on, I immediately said out loud
“No”! My attorney turned to me left and said in a certain tone of voice
“Why”. The Circuit Judge did not question my outburst of
“No”; and she just looked at me.
After my attorney’s outburst of “Why”, I was shocked and intimidated in front of the Judge / court and I agreed to a 1 1/2 years Order for Protection (TRO)
with the following wording; The Parties have agreed to the issuance of this Order but the Respondent (me) denies the allegations in the Petition.
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May 9, 2009 - My Immigrant wife’s Permanent Resident Card expires, and
after damaging my name she is allowed to stay in the United States of America.
God Bless America!
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Very Important -
My wife / ex-wife did not go away and she has taunted me from afar through other individuals; encouraging me to do something stupid. I did not, and I have not.
In most cases if an Immigrant spouse successfully
falsely accused their American spouse through the
“state”court system, and then they were able to successfully navigate through the United States
“federal” Violence Against Women Act, one would think that lucky Immigrant would just fade away. My wife / ex-wife did not do that.
The
Violence Against Women Act is powerful; kind of like
Immigrant Diplomatic Immunity. That is another lengthy chapter in itself! Just for the record, the taunting by some individuals has not gone away.
The United States
"federal" Department of Homeland Security finds this acceptable, I think it is scary...
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June / July 2009 - My wife left her 48 page Thai diary, and I finally had it translated by a professional Thailand translation company. It is unbelievable what my wife wrote, and it is disgusting what she writes about my daughters (my ex-wife’s
American step-daughters).
Here are a few loving comments that my wife wrote about me (there are many pages).
November 3, 2007 - If I'd had a gun, I would've shot him in the mouth.
December 24, 2007 - I hope he dies horribly.
January 2, 2008 - I want him to lose his job.
January 8, 2008 - I’m waiting for my chance. Just wait and see.
March 17, 2008 - I’m waiting for the day, I’m biding my time.
March 31, 2008 - (Drop dead)
April 7, 2008 - Just go and die wherever you want to.
October 9, 2008 - All I can do is reconcile myself to the thought that everything will come to me when the time comes. And I’ll have everything then.
October 14, 2008 - I hate him very much for waking up.
The United States
"federal" Department of Homeland Security finds this acceptable, I think it is scary...
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September 17, 2009 - Wife and I were divorced.