Yes, since it is your marriage based I-485 it is better to take your wife with you. Since it is your marriage based I-485, I do not think that you need to worry about your employment. You can wait for some experts comments on this thread.
Originally Posted by ehsan7
03-14-2013 : Submission date
06-12-2013 Document printed status
06-17-2013 Dispatched from MOIA
07-02-2013 Doc received at Washington DC
07-18-2013 email received from BLS to send the original US passport for matching OCI card
07-22-2013 by Fedex, original US Passport delivered to BLS
08-10-2013 - Received email second time from Bls again to send my original US passport .
Waiting for US passport, cancelled Indian passport, OCI card.