Follow up with the court. They can arrest him for contempt of court for failing to follow the order, and have the officers enter the house to get your IDs (of course, don't tell him you're asking the court to send the officers, or he might destroy the documents or disappear).
EB3 ROW I-485 Approved: July 2007
USC: July 2013
I am a layman, not a lawyer. What I write here is not official or professional legal advice. In addition, my answers on this forum are specific to the scenarios discussed in each thread and should not be generalized to other situations.